Thread: Anal pleasure for a man

I have come to realise that my guy is interested in anal pleasure but I do not know to what exstent or how to incorporate it in the foreplay.I know asking is the simplest way but I kinda wanted it to be a pleasant suprise.Any tips for a gal who's a beginner at this?

Handcuffs, a blindfold, some KY and a strap-on could certainly make for an interesting surprise.

Originally Posted by Jimbeau

Handcuffs, a blindfold, some KY and a strap-on could certainly make for an interesting surprise.

That might be a bit much just starting off.

Try some simple finger play. Wet your finger and gently stroke his perineum then around his anus. If he likes it, apply some lube, slowly insert your finger (palm up) and gently stroke his prostate. If that feels ok for him you can try 2 fingers. You could also try licking that area if you're both comfortable with that, just make sure he is very clean down there first.

Originally Posted by kristalyn04

You could also try licking that area if you're both comfortable with that, just make sure he is very clean down there first.

Gotta be only one in a million women who'd go for that. How would a guy ask for it?

Well, if two people are comfortable enough with each other to have sex, there should be open communication... no questions or suggestions should be off limits but of course respect each other's limitations. If he's shy about asking or afraid of the reaction, he could start the conversation by asking her if she's ever been rimmed and if it's something she would be open to exploring.

I wouldn't have a problem to lick that area of his.He does it for me,so why shouldn't I for him?I'm more interested in the technique I should use.How do I find his prostatr?Do I pleasure him orally or manually at the same time?

Originally Posted by Belladonna

I wouldn't have a problem to lick that area of his.He does it for me,so why shouldn't I for him?I'm more interested in the technique I should use.How do I find his prostatr?Do I pleasure him orally or manually at the same time?

Start with one or the other first, then you can try both. The prostate is just a couple of inches up, ask him to give you feedback so you know when you've found it. The tissue you're pressing on should feel a bit different than the surrounding anal wall.

I dont mean to sound stupid but this is a totally new 'field' for me.When I find his prostate,how do I provide the pleasure?Do I massage it as he would my clit?

You apply just a little pressure and stroke back and forth (like you're doing a "come here" motion with your fingers).

Thankyou very much for the tips