Thread: I love my fiance..but im not sexually attracted to him anymore??

I been with my fiance for 4 years and in the beginning of our relationship we had sex like crazy..i wanted it every day 3 to 4 times daily and ever since i had our daughter its like we went from going from having sex 3 times a day now we only do it maybe once a week..and i dont know whats wrong with me. I love him so much i really do he is the only guy i want to be with for the rest of my life but i dont understand why i dont get horny anymore. I never want to have sex and when i do feel like it..either we have to hurry up and get it on or if not i get out of the mood in a snap. What do i do because i dont want him to go out and find another girl somewhere else??

Maybe you don't have to do anything. Maybe the doing needs to be on his part.

You can sometimes get the spark back by doing something new. Mix things up a bit. If that works you will have to stay creative to keep things interesting.

Oxy- its not even about trying new things because i have tried...i dont understand how i could love someone with everything and im not sexual anymore i do still find him attracted but i dont wanna have sex so i dunno what else to do can a DR. do anything to help??

It sounds like it may be due to hormones since you had your daughter. Maybe you should head to the doctor and get your hormone levels checked.

The foetus and breastfeeding baby can take Omega 3 fats for the development of the brain.
Try some fish oil of flax oil supplements. These are good for mood and sex drive.