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    Unhappy I love my fiance..but im not sexually attracted to him anymore??


    I been with my fiance for 4 years and in the beginning of our relationship we had sex like crazy..i wanted it every day 3 to 4 times daily and ever since i had our daughter its like we went from going from having sex 3 times a day now we only do it maybe once a week..and i dont know whats wrong with me. I love him so much i really do he is the only guy i want to be with for the rest of my life but i dont understand why i dont get horny anymore. I never want to have sex and when i do feel like it..either we have to hurry up and get it on or if not i get out of the mood in a snap. What do i do because i dont want him to go out and find another girl somewhere else??

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    Maybe you don't have to do anything. Maybe the doing needs to be on his part.

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    You can sometimes get the spark back by doing something new. Mix things up a bit. If that works you will have to stay creative to keep things interesting.

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    Oxy- its not even about trying new things because i have tried...i dont understand how i could love someone with everything and im not sexual anymore i do still find him attracted but i dont wanna have sex so i dunno what else to do can a DR. do anything to help??

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    It sounds like it may be due to hormones since you had your daughter. Maybe you should head to the doctor and get your hormone levels checked.
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    The foetus and breastfeeding baby can take Omega 3 fats for the development of the brain.
    Try some fish oil of flax oil supplements. These are good for mood and sex drive.

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