moans and moaning issue

**thecute1331** · 05-08-2011 10:46 PM

ok so i know people are gonna say, i it feels right you wont need to think about it. Thats false.. the sex is amazing yet i get so self concious that i do think about it. my boyfriend wants me to moan and moan his name but it is hard. i dont know how to moan and when ever i do I THINK they soung jagged, misplaced, and unattractive. he says the ones i do let out sound elegant and turn him on to go deeper but i get so worried. he really wants me to moan his name but i get so worried about it. how can i moan more sexily? or feel more encouraged to moan?

**oxy-moron** · 05-08-2011 11:06 PM

Imagine your favorite "feel better" food- the one you eat when you are down- maybe chocolate or a tub of chocolate icecream.
Inmaging you are eating it (while your doing it)- with each mouthful express how good it is- oohhh that so good-ohh ohh ohhh.
You get the picture- funny thing is that making the noises can boost the feeling as well.
It can spiral away from you. Same thing with talking dirty- go girl!!!!! Make his day.

**ItsASecret** · 05-09-2011 12:04 AM

It is difficult to force something out that you may feel uncomfortable saying. If it is not something that simply does not come naturally then it will not feel natural and will only feel like an act which is not what you should feel. I have a tough time being vocal, especially with dirty talk, because I am just naturally not the type to say things like that so when my bf asks for me to moan or say something sexy and dirty I just cannot do it. Feels too fake and like an imitation and not what he may be looking for because it does not come naturally for me to moan or say things. But the only thing that does at least help is to keep doing it, sure it may not be so sexy the first few times but at least you are giving it a try and it shows him you at the very least want to try it. That is the stage I am at now, at least trying it when my bf asks me to do something. I am not expecting to be some sex pot because naturally I am not but I will give it a shot anyway, if we end up laughing because of it then great it can help ease the mood and not make it so focused and serious.

**Jimbeau** · 05-09-2011 05:11 AM

Just for fun, say someone else's name.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-09-2011 06:11 AM

And create his jealousy streak?

**lilmissdirty** · 05-09-2011 09:45 AM

Originally Posted by Jimbeau

Just for fun, say someone else's name.

Sponge Bob... Ohhhh Sponge Bobbbbbbb.......

**SaharaJim** · 05-09-2011 11:17 AM

Originally Posted by Jimbeau

Just for fun, say someone else's name.

Sounds like a "problem" but you can use this very effectively, IMHO, just focus on some person or fictional character that he "admires, emulates, wants to 'be like' " He then gets to "play" at being that character and you get the "benefit".