penis size and sex advice

**jman5** · 05-16-2011 03:48 PM

i have been with my gf for 8 years now and we only have sex once every other week i was wondering if i wasnt good enough for her. my penis is 6in long and 5.5 inches thick 1/2 inch above the base and 5in rest of it. i have to put it in slow at first because she complains it hurts at first.(shes only about 5fttall and weighs100lbs) during sex i only last a few minutes the first time but i can go again right after and i last much longer(any where from 15- 40 minutes), i can keep it up all night if needed. the problem is after i give her oral she says sex tickles to much and she never wants to do it the second time and i feel im not pleasing her. should i be worried about her leaving me? would any 1 else be happy with this?

**ItsASecret** · 05-16-2011 03:58 PM

Some women are very sensitive down there during or after oral. If she is just one of those women it is best not to push anything to happen as tickling is not pleasurable, that is why she does not want to continue. It is not that she does not want pleasure it is just that some sensations are too much and you do need to let the body relax for a bit. Let her body relax, kiss her body, touch other places but do not go straight for oral again and again if she says the sensation is too ticklish or too strong. Have her do things to you in order to keep the mood going.

**kristalyn_04** · 05-16-2011 03:58 PM

There is NO correlation between penis size and a quality sex life. Period. The issue is NOT about your size. Please read this thread:

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...enis-size.html

**jman5** · 05-16-2011 04:40 PM

do you think lasting 3-5 minutes the first time is a problem?some times i do last longer and i have no problem keeping it up all night. would that be a problem for any of you?

**ItsASecret** · 05-16-2011 05:03 PM

I am with a man who lasts less than that. It is only a problem if you do nothing else during sex. If you pay attention to her needs, or have her do other things to you then it is just as satisfying. Penetration for long periods of time is not required to make sex satisfying.

**jns** · 05-16-2011 07:45 PM

Have you asked her about your sex life together and intimacy? She should be able to tell you if she likes what you do for her.

**WildChild** · 05-16-2011 08:13 PM

Originally Posted by ItsASecret

. Penetration for long periods of time is not required to make sex satisfying.

This depends on the woman. Personally I need penetration and I need it to last a while.
Talk to her, experiment.
Every woman is different.

**ItsASecret** · 05-16-2011 08:19 PM

This depends on the woman. Personally I need penetration and I need it to last a while.

I meant for the sake of qualifying sex as only satisfying if penetration itself lasts for a very long period of time. Having penetration is what people want, I just mean it should not be considered the only way to achieve overall satisfaction.

**jman5** · 05-16-2011 08:19 PM

we have talked about it and she said it couldnt be any better. but if it was that good wouldnt she want it more? i just dont understand im in great shape i get hit on a lot by other girls but it seems like she doesnt want me