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Ok Every time I have inercourse it is very painful,like its time fore my cycle. I have had my first GYN exam and everything was fine. My first time was painful, so I stopped for a couple months thinking I just needed to heal b/c it was that "1st time" thing. But I recently did it and it was VERY painfull, but it was like one of those dont stop b/c it feels good...but stop b/c its killing me.....i dont know what to do, the guy was very understanding....but i think i kinda scared him, he thought he was hurting me...but i kept telling him to keep going...........Please help, I can't really get to a GYN at the moment

Are you taking any contraceptives at the moment as this can create dryness. Also try plenty of fore play before hand to ensure that you are fully aroused.

i know what your talking about, well i dont know for sure but maybe. um well after i have sex it hurts really bad like someone stuck a knife into my vagina or something, or it feels like i tore something, almost like a stinging pain that doesnt go away for about 20 minutes, and im always fustrated when me and my bf have sex and then we stop for a min, because when we start up again it hurts!! then after im scared to go pee, usually i have to pee after sex, and when i do it hurts like ****!!!! like crazy.. im sure i don't have any stds or anything like that because ive been recently checked and ive been with my boyfriend for the past 6 months. I thought it was the fact that i wasnt wet enough or something, but after we stopped and then tried to start up again, my bf and i used lube and it actually stung more!! it hasnt been happening lately, it seems like an on and off type of thing, like i have to be in the right mood at the right time or something...

oh and this is really wierd!! I actually think that when my bf ejaculates into me that is whats causing the pain!! because recently he hasnt been going in me and it hasnt been hurting, but a couple nights ago he did by accident and it started hurting again! that might be your problem too.

try a different position. Some women have a hard time with certian positions. I have a hard time with doggy style because my uterus is tilted forward. No big deal, just have to do a little improvising!!

ok I hate to ask but are fairly new to sex? I remember when I started to become sexually active it was very uncomfortable at first. One thing I did noticed that helped is as people have said. Make sure you have lots of foreplay so that you are in the mood and nice and wet. or use lub if needed.

Do you girls masturbate? If so does it hurt when you do that? Perhaps you have to work your self up or your area up. Do you guys have really large ****s?

actuallyy, my man is actually on the small side, but id still call it average. But the thing that counts is he knows how to work it, and work it good... But lately i havent been having these problems, it might just be my fluctuating sex drive from my pregnancy. who knows