Virgin Troubles? ...

**Young_Teen** · 05-24-2011 02:52 PM

Okay so like... I'm 18 years of age and I've never had sex so i have no freakin' clue what to do or how to do anything. I have been sexually active but not all that much. But when im over at my friends house (their an older couple) i get turned on when her boyfriend comes into the room. An hes really good looking but hes a good 15 years older than me and for as long as i can remember I've been attracted to older guys, and when i "talk" to my friend who is the same age area as me he talks a little freaky an that turns me on even more yet i don't know how! It confuses me and I don't know if this is normal.... I get turned on by the lightest touch sometimes and i feels so good... Cam someone please explain whats going on?

**LanaBear** · 05-24-2011 02:59 PM

I think you are just coming into your sexuality. It's normal. You will find out what arouses you and what doesn't. Finding out what turns you on is healthy and natural.

Just be careful and smart about it.

**Young_Teen** · 05-24-2011 03:04 PM

So it is normal to feel turned on at almost every older guy? And thank you so much LanaBear.

**LanaBear** · 05-24-2011 03:26 PM

Sweetie... You'll soon realize that there really is no such thing as normal. What is normal for one, won't be for another. It's a matter of what is right and comfortable for you. When I was 15-17, I was attracted to older guys, meh, I don't know why. The ones my age were incredibly immature. However, I ended up marrying someone who is only 9 months older than me.

Like I said, be careful and smart about it. Older men are just as able to take advantage of you. It's a thin line, wanting to experiment, wanting to experience things, but not doing anything that can hurt you physically or emotionally. Think things through and don't do anything just because.