Quote Originally Posted by yaranayeli View Post
He doesn't really seem to worry about germs or cleanliness, but we're both already pretty clean people, and yes, he did agree to wait immediately. He was married before, and he did have intercourse with her.
It may be that he knew he wasn't interested in intercourse before you two were married, but it would have been deceitful if he didn't reveal that. Have you asked him if he was sure he wanted sex after the two of got married? If he did, what changed?