Thread: Advice needed, obsession

Hey, new gal here. I've got a problem that's taking over my life. I'm 17, still stay at home, some experience with several guys my age. The experiences have been disappointing at best and I think I know why.

As well as being immature they were all a bit small, if you know what I mean. Several weeks ago I saw my dad nakid for the first time. He must of thought I was asleep and had left his door open a bit. It was huge, 2 to 3 time bigger than any guy I've seen. He was stroking himself, Mom is in the forces and we are on our own a lot.

I've sneaked a look as often as I can. He doesn't know I see him. Now all I can think about is wanting to touch it. Every day I hope that it will happen again. I know it wrong, how do I stop these thoughts?

You need a boyfriend.

You're not obsessed with your dad's organ. You're obsessed with sex. What is it that you're looking for when you have sexual relations? Teens are normally sexually curious. However, you need to ask yourself, what is the real reason you have sex? Talk to your school counselor to help you sort your feelings out.

Relaaaaaaaaaaaaax girl,

no need to sweat it.

Sure, having a boyfriend and/or stable relationship would take your mind off him. But if I were you, I wouldn't force anything. For once it is not really what you are after, and how would you feel, if someone picked you up, just to clear his mind?

I take it, you never watched that much porn, otherwise you would have an idea, as to what sizes are possible. Be very very careful with penis sizes shown in video clips. The average size is a LOT less.
You should also consider that your friends might not be fully grown (no pun intended).

Modern sex research has convincingly shown, that size and female satisfaction are not correlated. What matters most to women, is what happens inbetween their own ears.
So although the size obsession runs rampant (amomg men as well), it doesn't really matter.

I always wondered how you could raise a child without showing them how the body of grown man and woman look like? Being naked has become too big a taboo in societies, espically the anglo-saxons.

Large penis does not equal great satisfying sex.

You are violating your fathers privacy by spying on him during intimate moments he doesn't intend for you to see.

There are lots of penises out there in the world.....LOTS of them, different sizes, shapes, colors, etc. My suggestion is to stay as far away from your fathers as possible. Not only is he your own flesh and blood, he is a married man.

Well now what has been disappointing about the experiences? You might not know but 17 yr old boys arent exactly sexperts so I would imagine inexperience on both sides would have made it less then grand.

This is indicative of a serious problem in your sexuality - you should go see a psychiatrist. This problem, and its propensity to be a "troll" topic, can't be helped by this forum.
Closing thread.
(PS - thanks, members, for not feeding the troll - the responses here are all very helpful and ignore the "sensationalism" that a troll is looking to provoke.)