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    My husband wants me to wear thongs, it really turns him on. The problem is the more uncomfortable for me they are the more it turns him on. He resently brought a selection of thongs all were quite tight and uncomfortable. Should I carry on with this? He likes me to wear them in the days as a sort of extended foreplay, so I will do a phisical task like bending over with is quite uncomfortable with the thong and he loves it. But I don't really want to carry on doing this. Can anyone think of any other outfits that would turn him on? or a way to prevent the thongs from being uncomfortable.

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    I am sure if you get the size up from your standard nickers it won't be as un-comfortable, tight, it's obviously the visual of your buttocks that turns him on, bar going completely naked there, I can't see that there is an alternative.

    You could try the Gyno thing on him? It is claimed that wearing thongs assists in creating BV or thrush which means no sex for him Logically if the thong is moving all day, it is also rubbing from the back to the front, you could plead your case there mam
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    Why not get an assortment of equally uncomfortable "sexy" something or the other. Men's thongs, a size or two too small?
    Or you could try this on - it was very nice of you to try it, you don't like it, you DON'T have to DO it just because he wants you to.
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    You don't have to justify or explain it.
    They are uncomfortable for you.
    That is not a turn on for you.
    You MIGHT be willing to wear on once in a while (one of YOUR choice) but you aren't going to wear them all the time and if he doesn't get it, tell him you think clothes pins on his testicles might be a real turn on and suggest he try that out for a day for you.
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    Please understand that sex and relationship hints from perimenopausal crones are likely to be a bit pithy and to the point. LOL
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    lol's you going full with this one WC,

    But I don't really want to carry on doing this
    100% What she said above Never allow it to be his way, your way or the high-way... Just kidding but WC is correct, if it's not for you, then pfttttttt that's all there is to it, there can't be a compromise.

    Can anyone think of any other outfits that would turn him on? or a way to prevent the thongs from being uncomfortable.
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    Butt floss... LOL

    WC, straight and to the point is nice.

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    Tell him to take his too-small undies back to the store and buy them in the right size! Nobody wants to wear too-small underwear.
    Tight clothes in general are bad for you, tight underwear could only be worse ... and the thong style makes it worse still.
    If you really want to compromise with him on this, you could ...
    1. Get a size that feels good
    2. Try "boy short" panties, you get a little underbutt that some men find cute
    3. Go commando (as CW suggested,) which is actually kinda good for your vulva. I hear tell some men really get off on the idea of their woman going out in public sans undies, maybe go out on a date night and whisper it in his ear at the restaurant?

    Personally, I like the 5/$25 thongs at Victoria's Secret, you can get them in XL through the catalog (store only carries up to L) and they are soft, lacy, and comfortable. And certainly, if he persists with the too-tight thongs, hand him some clothespins to wear down there
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    It would be a major turn on if I came home one day to find my wife had converted to commando or thongs. What I do is change to what I want her to do. So now I'm a thong guy and commando guy. I converted her to naked sleeping and shaving down there, only by doing it myself. Now I'm working on commando and thong. That's what I wear (or don't wear). She has a hard time with change so it takes a long time.

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    I hate the butt floss stuff too. No way could I wear it outside the bedroom. But in the bedroom for a few hours, you bet. I have a whole bunch of different sexy "clothes" to wear that gives him a hard on every time. I have stuff for him to wear too, when I feel like it.

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