Afraid about first time..

**Dark_Crazy_Lover** · 06-13-2011 05:31 AM

Hello,
I am 18 and my bf is 16. We truly love each other and are gonna spend the rest of our life together.
We love being intimate..
But there is a problem,we both get wild when we are close together,but I am seriously scared of losing virginity,thinking how painfull it is gonna be.

We tried doing it but he couldn't enter cause I start sceaming and pushing him away. It feels like his thing is too big for me. Is it like that?
How much and how long may it hurt breaking hymen?I am seriously afraid!
Please suggest!

**monK** · 06-14-2011 09:58 AM

Maybe you should wait a while. Perhaps until you are married. I'm not saying that you two aren't going to spend forever together, but it should be more special than scary. If or when you decide to be ultimately intimate with each other, put your comfort at the front of the line. You both are rather young so take it easy. Atleast wait until he is a little more mature since women are said to mature faster than our masculine counterparts.

**xxredroz3xx** · 06-16-2011 08:42 AM

Originally Posted by monK

Maybe you should wait a while. Perhaps until you are married. I'm not saying that you two aren't going to spend forever together, but it should be more special than scary. If or when you decide to be ultimately intimate with each other, put your comfort at the front of the line. You both are rather young so take it easy. Atleast wait until he is a little more mature since women are said to mature faster than our masculine counterparts.

couldnt agree more.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 06-16-2011 11:16 AM

There are a couple of things I'd like to bring forward to you sweet.

"Afraid" then take your time.

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...ease-help.html

No man should "expect blow jobs" It is something you want to do for him, and in that, he appreciates it and also ensures he is intimate with you, it's a bond.

I am not going to agree with the above, you've been together a year, he is nearly 17 or should be given he was 16 in January.

But I am going to say that nothing can be forced you need to get to know your bodies even more, take it slowly, because he "expected bj's is he expecting intercourse? " Or did you both honestly make this decision together?

CW