Thread: Boyfriend is a Passive Aggressive Sex Addict who Prefers Masturbation to Sex with Me

hurtinginny

So in effect this was your first "true" love? 20 years ago, and throughout the years when ever you are single again he basically becomes the friend with benefits in "his eyes", never giving you anything more than that, sex, on his terms when he wants it and when you've had enough of this treatment someone else comes into your life, but again, when single the pattern continues?

Am I reading this right?

If so, you really have to let go of this guy once and for all...Even if he is the Daddy to two of your children, he was never there for them even when he found out they were his, and he resents a baby in the house now, your grandaughter, he is not relationship material, you even stated that when he was 20, and you 19...

Why do you feel that this person is the person you are meant to spend your life with? The one who does not treat you at all like a partner, rather abuses you in short, takes when he wants, ignores your feelings and why didn't he marry a couple of times himself? Because he is not relationship material?

For your sanity you are right, this has gone on way to long, it doesn't even allow you to find a partner that is what you wish for in life, instead you end up with partners that are still not worthy of you and then those relationships end too, I am not sure if you 'think' you are in love with this guy from when you were 19, or whether you just fall back with him as you don't want to be on your own.

But, it's time to look out for you and only you and learn to love yourself more.

You should not let this person get his way when ever he wants and when ever you are single....