Thread: The Amazing Clitoris - who knew it comprised 18 parts! (and counting in my opinion)

I have an insatiable desire to lovingly please a woman in every way sexually. I'm married and my wife just doesn't care anymore, drinks and eats too much and doesn't exercise. Not surprisingly, she doesn't love herself and doesn't feel sexy anymore. And you know where that leaves this caring passionate honest down to earth guy...dreaming.

I posted in the past on this great website and got fantastic opinions and help from really amazing people. I guess I feel so alone and the hole inside of me is that I don't get to fulfill my ongoing desire to give pleasure. I dug out a book that I bought for us, that she never read and dusted it off. It's called the Clitoral Truth by Rebecca Chalker. Now I'm even more in awe of the pleasure powerhouse all women have. It's a great book, giving all sorts of historical accounts and research summaries of women's' anatomy, physiology and sociology of sex, female ejaculation, masturbation and strives to show that our thinking is changing and moving away from the male phallocentric idea that intercourse is the end-all, be-all to sex. As you can guess I have always thought things should be at least equal in the the pleasure department, but as many a male has found, this seems impossible with the 5 minutes of intercourse that invariable causes a man to orgasm. Now I just want to spoil a woman - and that is my pleasure. From this book and the another I am going to read on its heels (it's on ESO, extended sexual orgasm in woman and men), it's clear that women take longer - at least 20 to 30 minutes to become aroused and the path starts in the brain, releasing a cocktail of hormones and chemicals, down the spinal chord, through the sacral plexus and so on. I so want to share/experiment in my growing understanding of the interaction of the 18 identified parts of the clitoral body parts and not just concentrate on the glans (the protruding tip that has an astounding 8000 nerve endings - more concentrated than any other body part male or female). Also, when we were active, my wife would squirt while I was giving her oral...a lot, before she came. This is a huge turn-on for me. I knew it was not pee and I didn't let a lot go to waste! I now understand where this comes from, thanks to this book: the para and peri-urethral glans that drain into the urethra. I knew something grew inside the top of the vagina when she was aroused, and she would squirt more when I massaged it up and outwardly with my tongue. If I put my finger in and pressed on what people know as the G-spot area, look-out! Now I know this as the urethral sponge and it is the same tissue as I have in my penis...I guess I should stop now - I'm at work and getting hot. I am dreaming I could find someone that I could share these intimate amazing questions/revelations with and would be willing to allow us to explore the height, depth and breadths of pleasure a woman is capable of enjoying.

Thanks for this website and thanks for letting me open up this vulnerable, somewhat secret side of me.