Thread: Hi there! I'm a 17yo male who has some questions :)

If she has an eating disorder or simply doesnt have a healthy diet that would affect her libido and her ability to orgasm.I have noticed that whenever I go on a diet I'm "not in the mood" as often as I usually am and find it very hard to climax.Also the fact that she was "denied" self-exploration and self-pleasure,could have affected her whole attitude towards sex.

Hi there! Im a 17 year old male who was last 15 or 16 years old when I was last on this site. Its not likely that any of you remember me, but id like to go ahead and tell you that moving in with my dad was the best choice I've ever made. My life has become a LOT better. I mean at first, it sucked not having any friends, but eventually I joined a sport im really good at and made friends and got a girlfriend. There was a ten month period where I had no friends and didn't leave the house, but I'll get to that later.
Life is going well, I have a beautiful girlfriend and we both love each other very much, but more importantly we are completely comfortable with each other.
We are both very physically attracted to each other and enjoy our alone time, but we are both virgins. Recently she decided that she wanted to have a private room to ourselves once in a while. I tried to get a hotel room with cash, tried to get one with prepaid credit card, etc... No luck. So I thought really hard and came to the solution of one of convenience. We both live in the suburbs and there is a shopping center that was recently developed but only has one store open in it which closes at 7 at night. There is an elevator in this shopping center. I figured out how to stop this elevator in between floors and put it out of service so that if someone pushes the button, it won't move. It is air conditioned in the elevator and I bring a sleeping bag and spread it out to cover the entire floor. Its perfect.
So almost daily she has been asking to go to the elevator after hours, which is great, its a lot of fun.
When I was in that ten months of no friends, I decided I would train my body and become fit and master every part of my body and try to be ready to be the best man possible. I watched "good sex" videos instead of porn, I read medical journals on pleasing women, I read about how to last longer in bed (definitely not necessary, I'll say more about this later).
So here are some quick questions:
My girlfriend cant achieve an orgasm. Actually, the most recent time we were in the elevator I found out that she didn't even know how to find her clit. I love pleasing my girlfriend it is a big turn on for me to please her. I love to see her body move in pure ecstasy so you can imagine how badly id like to help her achieve an orgasm. On many occasions I've fingered her and eaten her out for over 6 hours straight. She definitely get a lot of pleasure from it, but i always have to keep her right on the edge of pleasure and overstimulation. She tenses up and cant stand it if i go too hard. But on several occasions I've been passionately going slow and she is overcome with so much pleasure she cant breathe, and then she tenses up. All im asking is is there anything more i can do to help her? I stroke her forehead to keep her relaxed, make sure her feet stay nice and warm, make sure to keep her entire body stimulated, but I just don't know what else to do.
During those ten months, I found out I have complete and total control over my penis. Its literally like a muscle. I can move is left, move it right, up, down, etc... I can think and have a full erection in less than a minute, and I can purposefully lose an erection near instantly in order to avoid cumming and making a mess. This comes in handy because I feel guilty about having an orgasm when she cant have one.
Do you ladies ever know a guy who can do this? My girlfriend loves it when I go about halfway in and then wiggle my penis like a snake with no humping. She really loves it, its just im a bit concerned if this is... Normal. I've never heard of it happening before. :/
The day before my vacation we spent 12 hours with each other and it got very passionate. I ended up about half way inside of her and she wanted to have sex. I calmly told her that even though I know for certain I won't come inside of her, I was concerned that I produce a lot of precum, and told her she'd have to wait until I got some condoms. She was a little disappointed, but an hour of eating her out changed that mood quickly
I have two questions on this one: She is a virgin, and so am i, but i can fit my entire middle finger up to the knuckle inside of her with no resistance. Is her hymen already broken? If no, what is the most painless way i can go about breaking it.
Other question is: What are the condoms that feel best for women? I've never bought condoms before, and im not ashamed of going to the store and buying them, but id like to make sure that i get a reliable brand that also feels good for her

So, as you can tell i love my girlfriend very much and enjoy pleasing her even though i get very little attention. The pleasure i give her is enough for both of us.
So yeah, please post suggestions or comments on any of those questions. Also, if you have a suggestion for fun things to do, dont hesitate! We love to role-play, she like handcuffs but not bondage so dont suggest that :P but we are completely comfortable with each other so im definitely open to suggestions.
Im currently on vacation, but when i get back we're doing a scenario where she's a catburgalarand im a police officer, i cant wait!

She also has problems with hunger and doesn't eat regularly, but as soon as I get back I'm working with her mom to take her for a run every morning at 9. Hopefully exercise will help her become hungry.
I really care about her a lot.
Also, I had to delete over 23 smilies before it would let me post this haha. So yes, I am very happy with my life.