Thread: Do You Moan?

I would tend to agree with WildChild on that one. I know I am very excited when my wife makes sounds during sex. To me, it shows that she is into it, and that totally enhances to experience for me...I imagine for her too. I can probably see how I may get the same feedback if I could tell that a woman was working really hard to keep it in and under control. Calm, cool, and collected, however, is not a big turn on. There are some places for poise...the bedroom during sex is not one of them.

I completely agree with WildChild...I know that my experience is very much enhanced when a woman makes sounds of pleasure during sex. They don't need to be crazy, porn star climax screams of obscenities or other exclamations that I should [blank] her [blank] with my [blank], but having that feedback makes me enjoy it much more because of the input that she is enjoying it too. I would imagine that seeing her work very hard to keep it in and under control (e.g. biting the pillow) would be a turn on too, but calm, cool, and collected during sex is not a turn on. There are some places for poise, and the bedroom during sex is not one of them.

Sorry for the duplicate post...I thought my first attempt failed so I retyped.

So I've searched around a bit and can't find a thread like this one. If htere already is one, I apologize.

Do you moan while having sex?

I do sometimes. At first, I was used to having to keep quiet because of parents nearby. Now, I live in an apartment building so I have neighbors. Sometimes I bite the pillow. Other times I really don't care because I'm so caught up. I know the guy above me can't care because his bed is constantly banging against my ceiling.

I used to be almost completely silent, too scared to make much more than a sigh. But while my husband and I were still dating he had a room mate that had a straight up screamer girlfriend, at 3 and 4 in the morning. I guess I let loose out of anger just to get them back once and found things about 100X more enjoyable when I didn't hold back.... but I am a pillow biter too. Especially since we have a kid now.

My fiance loves when I bite the pillow and hold back. Wonder why? Might need to saunter on over to the Ask Men thread.