Thread: Can woman live with a man who can only give orgasm from oral sex?

I also rarely have an orgasm solely from intercourse. I almost always require clitoral stimulation, whether oral, with his fingers, or what is probably my favorite move of hubby's...when he pulls his penis out of my vagina and rubs the underside of his head directly on my clit.

And size is not the issue. He's big. But that's just not enough, for me. I would say that 98% of my orgasms have come from clitoral contact in some way.

I'm actually a bit jealous. I've gotten my wife off from intercourse several times (though far from 100%, especially the past year), but I've never gotten her off from oral without her helping out a lot. I'd rather be able to develop the skill to do it all myself without her manually stimulating herself. Hmmmm in fact, I think I'll bring that up with her and make an evening out of it lol. Give it the old college try.

But like the other posters said, your size likely has nothing to do with it. Some women (in fact, I think it's MOST women) never orgasm from penetration. Ever, no matter the man's size. You can see if she stimulates her clitoris while you're inside her. That might help, but I figure there's a good chance she's just one of those women who can't do it.

Most women I talk to about these matter never have an orgasm during intercourse -- always by some other means, or so rarely they just don't expect it. I'm not saying this is always the case -- I seem to be one of the lucky ones -- but it definitely takes exploration and communication to find ways to make it happen. Different positions, timing and even toys can help things along. If you can find out which position stimulates the G-spot, you're likely good as gold.

indeed.."communication" .... we are now been 4 month in a relationship ... and i able to give her orgasm through penetration ..... and the thing is ; " she's the one who found the move "