Thread: simple techniques / tips appreciated

have a new boyfriend. he has the largest penis i have had the pleasure of knowing and he is also the 1st circumcised guy i have been with - so slighly intimidating.
he is also very experienced and knows exactly what he likes.

problem is, he won't stay hard if i don't keep up what he likes and I am struggling to figure out how he works!

Apart from "ask him" or "trial and error" advice, I would like some basic tips.

I want to give him a BJ but i am nervous because a. i am not too experienced in that field and b. I really want to avoid making him lose his erection.

Hand job tips also very welcomed. I don't know how this might be different for a circumcised guy...

please advise!

Do a Search in this forum on both subjects...searching each one seperately.

There are hundreds of posts covering each subject.

If he is willing to tell you exactly what he likes, that is the best bet. Really nothing wrong with trial and error either - experimenting is fun! You can also of course look at some amateur porn clips on the internet to get ideas - much easier to see than to describe. (pro porn is all done for show, so it isn't a good guide).

For a BJ, a hand on his shaft, tip in your mouth is a pretty good start. How hard and fast will depend on him, it differs for different men.

a lot of saliva, a lot of tongue up and down, kiss and lick his balls, keep moving your hands always, (don't try deep throw)...if you can swallow and he for ever will be your slave....or you can allow him in your mouth but then make all the cum slip away but don't stop the stimulation until the end....when he tells you to stop....ah! - right after he cums, you must stop the hard suction and apply a more softer one...

Just ask him. Then find the courage and enjoy it. If u like going down u just do what comes naturally because u just want it "in and around your mouth" as my bf would say. I'm imagining him pointing in circular motions to his moth when he says this, it's hilarious LOL I know it's intimidating the first few times just go slow and don't actually "suck" too much it's not something your trying to get nutrition out of