Oral sex question...

**knw5624** · 07-19-2011 02:59 PM

Is there a way to make your gag reflex less sensative? my boyfriend enjoys oral sex, and I enjoy giving it... but I gag every time and I really just wish I could fix this!

**heather24** · 07-19-2011 03:15 PM

try changing positions....might be easier for you if his penis is angled correctly towards your throat...a '69' position is good....get your own to!!!

**knw5624** · 07-19-2011 03:20 PM

Haha that might be an idea, but i was thinkin of more of an.... at home self help thing... lol. like if penetrating my throat more regularly on my own might do something to make it less sensative? Idk if thats stupid or not, or if it would work, but I would like to do something because im irritatingly sensative. I cant even brush my teeth without gagging most of the time when i brush my tongue =/

**ItsASecret** · 07-19-2011 03:42 PM

You could try doing the at home stuff like you mentioned but taming a gag reflex can take a long time or never be helped at all. Every person is different, some can tolerate it much quicker and some can never tame it no matter how hard they try. There are also numbing sprays you can get form the pharmacy that will ease the feeling at the back of your throat.

**Seeker_Advice** · 07-20-2011 08:32 AM

Have you done a serach of this site? Oral and nearly everything about it has been discussed in detail and at length in the past. Try that, it might help.

**Melephant** · 07-23-2011 11:37 AM

I used to have this problem til i accidentally discovered a solution!

My bf announced rather unexpectedly after literally about 30 seconds after i started that he was about to finish.. Well, i was quite shocked and as i took.. a mouthful?.. i gasped in shock (and cos he grabbed my backside REALLY hard!) and my lips managed to literally push up against him, i had his entire length inside my mouth and managed not to gag!

Since then, i breathe in through my mouth.. No more gag reflex! You'll be amazed at how much you can take in

**kristalyn_04** · 07-23-2011 04:22 PM

Sure, you can train your gag reflex over time. But honestly? You really don't have to deep throat to give a good BJ. I've shared tactics a few times before and it's been discussed to death... do a thread search, I'm sure you'll find some helpful info.