Thread: Wierd Question...give me your thoughts...I think I burned my clit by accident

Ok...I haven't posted in a LONG TIME, kinda nervous..don't know if my people are still on the site...but here it goes

I use a bullet vibrator, well you know its the summer time and it's been crazy for me..I mean CRAZY..this isn't normally me so follow me on this because i'm worried

(Breathes DeeP)

I was "abusing myself in a good way" with bullet (which often gets really hot with prolonged use) Well after a lonnnnnngggg day I collapsed on my bed with all intention of getting up and showering the days stress away. Instead I had to get that tingle out....twice. Some times if I don't I can't sleep, it drives me crazy. I knew I was going to be sore...but didn't think anything else. Next morning i woke up extremely late and ran to work showering upon return that day. When I got up yes I was sore...and my poor little mommas (what I call my no-no spot) was redish. It's day two, its still sore and slightly redish bottom line I think the combination of heat and (smh in shame) dirt did a number on my who-who. Has anyone ever hurt themselves pleasuring themselves?

We're still here!

It can even happen to guys if they get carried away and rub themselves raw, though I'd imagine for women it's slightly easier with a vibrator than with their hands or a dildo. Just keep your hand of your mommas for a little while and allow it to heal, and everything should be fine again.

Though maybe the frustration of having to keep your hands off might hurt more than the soreness.

HI TEX!!!!! Long time no see!!!! (hangs head in shame)

so hilarious that you are the first one to post, I wonder if anyone else remembers me

I clicked on this post to close an old thread, because I was SURE you hadn't been here in ages! Welcome back!
Can't say I've ever hurt my clit self-pleasuring, but I've definitely dtd until it hurt ... especially early in a relationship

Hello stranger. It's what you call "too much of a good thing". Feels good so you do more and more and then suddenly, oops...ouch. The thing with those types of toys is the more you use one, the more desensitized you become therefore you have to use it harder and harder to get the same effect. In addition, desensitizing yourself to that extent also will make it VERY difficult for any current or future sexual partner because they will NOT be able to emulate that rapid vibration. Also, there are a kazillion nerve endings in that area......it's important NOT to burn them.

Be sure you're keeping the bullet very sanitary (and also yourself ). Don't let yourself go overboard with it. I think you will find if you use it less often, you won't have to us it so vigorously to get it to work.

Oh dear, not to worry you will be fine. Nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. As BD said, try to limit your toy usage, you don't want to become dependent on it to reach orgasm. Give it a rest, let yourself recover, then just go easy next time... maybe try just your fingers, and lubricate well.

LOL, so I can't use my fingers, never have been able to. I can look at it, clean it, I talk to her, sing to her, pamper her...have her massaged, but I can not touch her with my own fingers. I don't know why. back to the other subject... I have no clue what to put on it, what to do it's the first time this has happened and if I didn't know better I would think it was something else. Since I do know better I'm baffled....but I was BACKED up, my S/O hurt his back so we haven't been able to hit the 100 in a while. (ok now for english) he hurt himself so we haven't been intimate and I refuse to until he is fully healed..lol now I refuse to until i'm fully healed. I put a&d ointment on it but I have NEVER been here before and it's not like I can do what they do in the commercials and turn to my girl friends while in the sauna and just bust out...oh yea by the way I was sexually abusing myself the other day and apparently I left my mark...my inbetween my thighs private eye is now pissed off at me and I don't know what to do??? LOL

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Sounds like you may have cooked things a bit- should be right within a couple of weeks at most as long as you havent done nerve damage.
You could always try coconut oil as a salve if you have any.

Are you just uncomfortable touching with your fingers, or do you not like the way it feels? Does your SO use his fingers/tongue on you? Are you able to orgasm without the vibrator?