Thread: Is my boyfriend a sex addict?

Dear frds,
i'm angel from india..i'm 22 n my b.f s 23..we always hav gud times..he s gud in everything..nd i love his character..bt d pbm s he s always talking abt sex in phone or when we meet frm somewer..and also..wen we are alone he used to touch my breast or somewer lik dat..if i dnt co-orporate wth him,he used to quarrel wth me..wt to do..we didnt had real sex..we r intrstd in dat only aftr mrg..
I knw sex s an important thing in rel..bt relation s something greater dan sex..right?
Wt s ur opinion abt him? Is he cheating me/using me?

Ack, first of all... its really hard to read what you are saying with those abbreviations. If I got the jist of what you were saying... he doesn't sound like a sex addict AT ALL. You guys aren't having sex, you both are only wanting that after marriage... so... it sounds like he's morally on the same page as you. He may have an interest in sex, he may have a higher interest in sex than you... but an addict? It certainly doesn't sound like it. Cheating? You said he talks to YOU about sex, touches YOUR body, and wants to wait for marriage to have sex with YOU... I don't get where cheating is even playing into your thoughts? And if he isn't having sex with you, what is that you do for him that makes you feel like you are being used? I'm not making light of your concerns... again, your typing style was so very difficult to read... and maybe I didn't understand your words the way you meant them.