Thread: Can't orgasm anymore

I have vaginismis, which makes me having sex extremely painful and difficult. However I greatly enjoy masturbating usually once a day or every other day and am usually able to have great waves of orgasms. Recently my boyfriend tried eating me out, it felt so good it hurt, I think I orgasmed, only because the intense climax of pleasure just kind of stopped. I wasn't really happy with this cause I like my slow noticeable orgasms I get threw masturbation. (I'm very happy for the experience though) However ever since then I haven't been able to orgasm at all. I've tried masturbating since then twice now and each time I get right to where I think I'm going to and it all just stops. I haven't been taking any medication, or drinking, or anything. I've tried doing it before going to bed or when I wake up and nothing seems to work. Any ideas as to whats going on?

Hard to say what might cause that- you would have to think it could be hormones. Things can fluctuate during the month as well so it probably to early to be worried about it.
Maybe you could cut out the Masturbation for a while and concentrate on time with your boyfriend.
Possibly exercise and healthier diet could be beneficial as well.

I have a similar condition. My two best friends are a gay couple that own a sex toy store. Anyway they have vibrators that are glass that vibrate... Now I know what you would think.. its sensitive down there why put something hard as glass... But some some reason the vibration, it being hard, the temp the glass holds... I have no idea but it works and I have never felt better.. Anyway here is a link for the product and I own two... it might not be what you are looking for but it worked for me.
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Originally Posted by irischef

I have vaginismis, which makes me having sex extremely painful and difficult. However I greatly enjoy masturbating usually once a day or every other day and am usually able to have great waves of orgasms. Recently my boyfriend tried eating me out, it felt so good it hurt, I think I orgasmed, only because the intense climax of pleasure just kind of stopped. I wasn't really happy with this cause I like my slow noticeable orgasms I get threw masturbation. (I'm very happy for the experience though) However ever since then I haven't been able to orgasm at all. I've tried masturbating since then twice now and each time I get right to where I think I'm going to and it all just stops. I haven't been taking any medication, or drinking, or anything. I've tried doing it before going to bed or when I wake up and nothing seems to work. Any ideas as to whats going on?