I can't go on top ):

**grace1992** · 08-11-2011 04:30 PM

Ive recently started seeing this guy and the sex is passionate and intimate and amazing. But hes always always on top, I feel really bad but I just can't do it, I don't know what to do, I can never get his penis to go inside me when I get on top and i'm quite big as well which seems to make it more difficult, i'm really worried he will loose his erection as well which is really embaressing for him and me ): I really need some help on what to do, it's not fair on him if hes always on top and I don't want him to get bored. Please help!!!
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**strong** · 08-11-2011 09:26 PM

while you're already on top and he hasn't got erection yet, you can kiss and play with his p to arouse him, or better you can use some lubricant to do that...after he got his hard on...then you can start the penetration....if you feel that he start to loose the erection.. you really have to move your weight away from him..using your knees to carry your weight..and you can start to arouse him again by tickling his testicles gently ....

if you guys are open in using devices, you guys can use the small sex chair like this one.

**PinkySweet** · 08-12-2011 03:05 PM

I can never get my fiances penis inside me without his help when im on top. He usually holds it and helps it in... Im sure you boyfriend could atleast do that. It takes practice to get some positions down. Im on the heavier side too, but my boyfriend doesnt loose erection, he just usually holds it to the whole and I sit down... and if you can be on top yall could always try other positions like: doggy, spooning, when hes on top he can put your legs on his shoulders...theres alot of different things.

**stressed** · 08-12-2011 03:45 PM

Is it bad if they have to hold it to get inside? I've never managed this without help either but I don't think it's much of a problem. I wonder what a man's view would be on that.

**Beckers** · 08-12-2011 10:30 PM

Your love-making involves two people, that means you help each other out and work together to make it better and better every time. This often involves awkward situations when attempting new positions. There is nothing wrong with trying something and letting your partner to help you until you get the right penetration or the right rhythm. With a new partner, sex is a work in progress. It's not a big deal for him to hold it while you climb on. And if the sex is as passionate and crazy as you say, what makes you think he will lose his erection? Just go for it. He's obviously into you, and probably wants to see the side of you that takes charge in the bedroom. He'll be into it, and he'll be willing to assist you.

**rcoreyus** · 08-13-2011 12:00 PM

Since I haven't had this problem I can't tell what is going on - what doesn't work?

**Little** · 08-13-2011 12:06 PM

Do you reach down with your hands to guide him in while on top? I find that helps a great deal. As others have mentioned, new positions can be really, really awkward! That's why trust is such an important component to sexual relationships

**jns** · 08-13-2011 12:57 PM

Originally Posted by grace1992

But hes always always on top, I feel really bad but I just can't do it, I don't know what to do, I can never get his penis to go inside me when I get on top and i'm quite big as well which seems to make it more difficult, i'm really worried he will loose his erection as well which is really embaressing for him and me ): I really need some help on what to do, it's not fair on him if hes always on top and I don't want him to get bored.

Please describe the difficulties. Can You reach down between your legs and guide him in?

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