This is Weird....Am i considered a SEX ADDICT

**Mem3** · 08-12-2011 12:24 PM

Ok heres the scoop. Sex is on my mind constantly always worsen over night. Im always constantly wet throughout the day. Just kissing or making out with a guy gets me really wet or just thinking about it. Whenever i see a male thats one of my first thoughts. I never act on them though, only because i am shy i never start any sexual activity. Unfortunatly i no in my heart if they did i would end up having sex with them. I consider myself a freak i do it all, blow jobs, cum swallowing, flexible willing to try it all, and i enjoy pain, what really bothers me is how my sex drive is so strong that i would evan consider females, but i have no desire to date a female. Is my sexual drive out of control?.....I need advice willing to take any, i need it.....

**ItsASecret** · 08-12-2011 04:38 PM

You only have a high sex drive, not all women have a high some some have even higher than you. Normal due to variations in the population. A real sex addiction involves choosing sex over things you should not be avoiding. Examples would be not paying your bills because you are busy paying for strippers or cyber sex, not going to work because you spend it all having sex or masturbating to porn, engaging in extremely risky behavior like sex with many many people in very little time with little regard for your own or your partners health due to the exchange of STDs and STIs. Other examples would be cheating excessively in any or all relationships because sex is all that matters...basically things that are very extreme. Simply thinking about or wanting to have sex is not an addiction, it may be an addicting thought but it is not a full blown sexual addiction.

**hanni** · 08-15-2011 12:35 PM

I wouldn't say you're an addict - and certainly not a freak, you just sound like you have a healthy appetite for sex and there's lots of things you are still wanting to explore.

Maybe the reason it's on your mind is because you're not with a partner who you can explore all of your urges/fantasies with?

**jns** · 08-15-2011 02:49 PM

You have a high sex drive but nothing you said makes you a sex addict.

**Elanor-Jane** · 08-15-2011 05:53 PM

It's good to get that excited about sex, my new bf made me feel that way too (but with him in mind) before this I thought I was doomed for a life of boring sex so it's good you don't view it as a chore, as this is the way that many women feel about sex