Fed up with trying - Looking for new activity partner for bedroom

**Devon1123** · 08-13-2011 12:58 PM

I have been trying very hard for 8 years now at getting my partner to engage in the bedroom. I've taken over cleaning, cooking, laundry, and everything else. I even offered to make a schedule to fit her needs. She has no interest in sex whatsoever. She used to say how great I was at giving oral and how good she got off. I've tried being nice, being supportive, being affectionate. I even got us a counselor. Heck, even the counselor who was a woman, told her she needs to make an effort. But after 8 years and only seeing her engage maybe once a year, I've decided to search for someone with a similar problem, who doesn't mind releasing some stress in the bedroom. I'm taking applications. Ohh geez, I never thought I would say that. Lol. I'm 37, blue eyes, short br hair, 6'1", d/d free and love music and movies and life. I like children and pets too. I'm a people person.

**jns** · 08-13-2011 01:08 PM

Have you broken up with her yet? Or has she given you the go ahead to have a relationship on the side?

**rosekitten** · 08-13-2011 01:15 PM

Erm... so you're looking for someone to cheat on her with? Perhaps you should try an actual adult dating site, instead of a help forum. Oh, and if you're not happy with your relationship, leave her, don't cheat on her.

**Little** · 08-13-2011 01:16 PM

If you'd like to discuss your problems and your journey through the ending of your current relationship and the beginning of a new one, this is the right place for you. We see a lot of this kind of issue and enjoy helping.

But if you are looking for that partner here, you are barking up the wrong tree. Any material that looks like it belongs on a "dating site" will be removed in the future.

**Seeker_Advice** · 08-13-2011 04:54 PM

You're justifying cheating on your partner because she doesn't meet your needs.

Frankly, I think it's bunk, but that's just my opinion.

Do the RIGHT thing and leave this woman BEFORE you cheat on her.

CHEATING on someone is never okay...ever.

**xxredroz3xx** · 08-13-2011 10:38 PM

Originally Posted by Seeker_Advice

You're justifying cheating on your partner because she doesn't meet your needs.

Frankly, I think it's bunk, but that's just my opinion.

Do the RIGHT thing and leave this woman BEFORE you cheat on her.

CHEATING on someone is never okay...ever.

Agreed.