My vagina isn't tight at all and sometimes when I masturbate I can feel my bladder inside me bulging out. The doctor want's to tie up my bladder but I am to scared (my mother's operation wasn't a success, it only worsen it). I tried kegel exercises, but the problem is I can't contract my muscles at all! If I feel I want to urinate, I must go immediately because if I starting urinating, I cant stop the flow. I bought the dual smart vagina balls, but the sides make me sore and I don't know if it was just accidently but the next day I had a bladder infection. My question, is it my bladder that isn't in tuck anymore that I can't feel my pelvic muscles contracting when trying to do Kegel excersises? When I do the exercises I only feel my buttocks and stomach muscles contracting? What am I doing wrong, please help!!