I learned I am lucky being 5.5 inches...I can do everything

**marcopoly** · 08-17-2011 08:58 AM

I wanted to start this tread to share my experience. I am 41 and in my middle 30s, I spent money and time trying to make my penis bigger. I wanted to see my woman with a huge penis on her mouth, I wanted to see her face deform as she swallow my piece. However, with time and education, I started to feel lucky rather than unlucky.

This is what happens:

improve communication with my wife led to talk more about sex, what I needed, what she needed, etc,
more sex, more confidence, better physical shape, new sex toys, etc,

In a period of 3 years, first, I was able to learn that my wife could, with time, patients and experience, learn to enjoy anal sex (my penis size allow for it, the gird and lenght are on the top range for any woman to take me completly up her behind ); that is, not like other well endowed men, I can say that during my life I was able to enjoy a woman's behind like it was her vigina ...not many man can say this. Second, more communication led to her trying to practice deep throw techniques on my penis, it has taken a long time, but everytime she can go ever deeper and take another centimeter of my penis down her throw and this my friends happens better and more often if your penis is of average size. Third, even witn 5.5 inches, in certain sexual position, she still pushes me out, she says that felt me all the way to the end. Thus, in conclusion, WHO WANTS SUCH A BIG ?....FOR WHAT?....in a long term relationship where sex becomes a wonderful journey between two people, trust me you get to a point where your size if normal o average, may allow you to experience EVERYTHING that a too big of a wouldn't allow you.....or would make it very hard for you.....

comments?

**stressed** · 08-19-2011 08:21 AM

Big size doesn't equal good sex. I agree with you and well-done for understanding that. More men should think like you, they'd make their partners very happy.
Well said.

**Taos** · 08-19-2011 08:55 AM

marcopoly,

Your post leaves me with an extremely uneasy feeling about you and your perspective of sex. You seem to be caught up in what you get out of sex. Tell me what your do for your wife.

I would never want any girl I am dating to have her mouth deformed. I want her to enjoy sex.

I do get the feeling that your wife submits to you for reasons other than concerns for herself.

Adios,

T

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 08-19-2011 03:24 PM

Originally Posted by Taos

marcopoly,

Your post leaves me with an extremely uneasy feeling about you and your perspective of sex. You seem to be caught up in what you get out of sex. Tell me what your do for your wife.

I would never want any girl I am dating to have her mouth deformed. I want her to enjoy sex.

I do get the feeling that your wife submits to you for reasons other than concerns for herself.

Adios,

T

I wanted to see my woman with a huge penis on her mouth, I wanted to see her face

This is what happens:

improve communication with my wife led to talk more about sex, what I needed, what she needed, etc,
more sex, more confidence, better physical shape, new sex toys, etc,

WHO WANTS SUCH A BIG ?....FOR WHAT?....in a long term relationship where sex becomes a wonderful journey between two people, trust me you get to a point where your size if normal o average, may allow you to experience EVERYTHING that a too big of a wouldn't allow you.....or would make it very hard for you.....

Taos I think you read that in-correctly.. He clearly states what he needs and what "she needs" and he is stating that he had an in-security I believe of his size and visualised himself bigger and probably watched a bit of porn

From that top description but that he came to the conclusion that he was wrong SIZE DOESN'T MATTER yay another other man states it finally

And that with trust and love, they are now having an amazing sexual journey with experimenting together.

As it should be....

**Taos** · 08-19-2011 04:14 PM

Hi Chandler's Wish,

Yep, you're probably right. I might have read it incorrectly.

In my defense though, being a dude who knows lots of dudes, many actually believe foreplay is feeling for a woman's natural lubrication and mounting them. To my way of looking at life, not only are they assuredly bad in bed, they are selfish for not talking time to learn.

Excellent foreplay is one of the best components of an exciting and thrilling sexual experience. I literally love the look of sexual ecstasy upon a woman's face, especially as she wafts upon velvety clouds of pleasure while I await her descent to my arms.

Adios Amiga,

Taos

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 08-19-2011 04:35 PM

I'm detecting alot of "all about me" in you...

I don't think you have to defend yourself, the OP is making a good statement about him, it's all about him

And then sharing that here to let "men" know that love and feeling confident conquers all.

Now this song is playing in my head "what's love got to do, got to do with it",

Decides to leave now...

CW

**MitchE** · 08-20-2011 09:03 AM

Marcopoly. I'm with you bro. At a mere 6.5 and not particularly girthy I too have learned to "embrace" what I have. Look, there isn't much we can do about it. It's how we were born and it's not like we have a say so in it. We can't build it up like we can our muscles in the gym. What we CAN do is be amazing lovers. Listen to our women. Put forth the effort in learning their bodies, their desires, their likes and dislikes then tuning in with them to achieve a sexual experience that they or you has never had before. And if THIS isn't enough... and a womens only concern is that you or I aren't some 9 inch stud that may not take the time to do as we have done....well she just isn't worth it in my book and she can move on!!

**waya** · 08-20-2011 06:17 PM

Exactly, marc. I can do a lot more fun things with a man who has an average or even a bit smaller member. And many options makes for lots of fun

**kristalyn_04** · 08-20-2011 08:30 PM

SO glad to see men FINALLY come on here and say that they are satisfied and confident with what they have. Good for you guys! It will make your sexual experience with women so much better, because when you're confident you will be more receptive and open to learning things instead of constantly worrying about what is between your legs.

**jns** · 08-21-2011 09:06 AM

Maybe this thread should be cited when the next post comes along about a guy complaining that his super sized penis is not super sized enough or a guy complaining his average sized penis is going to be laughed at.