Too many orgasms?

**ActionJackson** · 08-18-2011 08:03 PM

I was having sex with this girl for the first time, and about 45 second into intercourse she had an orgasm. At first I wast sure but I asked her and she said ya. From then on at intervals of about ever 30-40 seconds she would have another orgasm. At first I thought this was pretty cool, but after awhile it was pretty frustrating. I mean before I can get into a good "groove" I have to stop again and wait a few seconds for her to finish her thing and give her a chance to recover. Has anyone else has this problem, or are there any women that are similar to this that can share some insight or experience?

**ItsASecret** · 08-18-2011 08:22 PM

Are you positive the girl herself knows she is having an orgasm every 30-40 seconds and not simply feeling good? There are small rushes of pleasure type feelings that go through a body, they feel good but they are not orgasms. A full blown orgasm with muscle contractions and everything every 30-40 seconds that seems a bit much for even the most responsive woman. The body itself needs a certain amount of downtime, it does not just go orgasm orgasm orgasm at set intervals like that. You can get rushes of the chemicals in waves but to have a full muscle contraction orgasm you need to recoop those chemicals, and that takes minutes altogether not seconds which is why a woman can have an orgasm with a break inbetween.

**ActionJackson** · 08-18-2011 08:38 PM

Well every time she would have muscle contractions, her legs would tighten up a lot and her vagina would get extremely tight for a few seconds because her whole body would flex up. Afterward she kept asking me to "chill for a second" because she said she gets light headed afterward because she holds her breath during those orgasms or whatever you want to call them. I have seem plenty for female orgasms before and they definitely look like them. I am as confused as you are that's why I'm posting here because I have never dealt with this kind of thing before. We had to stop literally about once a minute for her to catch her breath.

**ItsASecret** · 08-18-2011 08:42 PM

Well clenching during sex does happen, all woman will do it from time to time without really putting much focus on it but that sort of typical tensing up is not an orgasm but it is strange if she is having a full blown vaginal muscle contraction orgasm every 30 seconds. Unless of course you have sex for a couple minutes and you just get so caught up in it that it feels like it was 30 seconds, that is possible too and in that case she could have an orgasm again and again because it would be a more time elapse.

**ActionJackson** · 08-18-2011 08:51 PM

No that's the thing, I WASN'T getting caught up because half the time I was just waiting for her orgasm phase to end so I could start again. I mean it might have been more the like 45 seconds than 30 seconds, but then she would start an orgasm which lasted like 5-10 seconds, then I would wait 10 seconds for her to recover, then start again. I think we had sex for about 15 minutes or so and she has about 10, what seemed like to me, full blown orgasms. Like I said at first it seems pretty neat, but after awhile it was EXTREMELY frustrating having to stop so much that I was almost getting bored during intercourse because all I was doing was watching her orgasm. Whether or not these are considered orgasms or just "waves of pleasure" doesn't matter, what does is that they were VERY distracting because by the time I even started to get into it, I would have to stop and start all over.

**ItsASecret** · 08-18-2011 08:58 PM

I see your frustration, not really sure what could be done other than maybe asking her if she could give a sign that she is about to finish and you slow down so that she does not orgasm. That sort of ebb and flow of pleasure for her while still continuous sex for you due to the slowing down but not completely stopping. But I can see where that could turn into a problem if all it takes is a handful of pumps from you so-to-speak, you would hardly do anything and like you said have to stop. Very frustrating and unique issue you are going through right now.

**ActionJackson** · 08-18-2011 09:07 PM

Ya I never imagined I would have this sort of a problem. Well thanks for the advice!

**nattynoona** · 08-25-2011 04:19 AM

I used to be able to orgasm very frequently, sometimes up to 8 times in a 15 minute sex session - ONLY if the bloke continued what he was doing. If he stopped and waited for me to orgasm before carrying on, I would lose the orgasm altogether as female orgasms require repetition.
If he kept stopping to let me 'catch my breath' I'd be very annoyed at him! lol
I get light headed after orgasms, but it doesn't stop me wanting my boyfriend to carry on, plus I find that light headed feeling makes sex feel more 'on another level'. I don't quite know how to explain it, but i thoroughly enjoy it!!