Thread: kinky with ugly men

hi,
so here it is, when im touching myself, i recently found myself fantasizing about ugly men i know. well, in my definition, not even guys im unattracted to ... but who i consider not good looking at all. but once im done, the thought of sex with them makes me shudder. in my fantasies i dont let them touch me, but may move to quick sex later, kissing is a no no...no intimacy at all for me. usually i just like the thought of them watching, but if the heat turns on, maybe more. i dont know what to make of this, when i think of good looking guys, the thought of that is just not that hot... im not sure if this is healthy or not, if it isnt, the last thing i want to do is encourage myself in further indulgence. help please? ps- this is all in my head.

You say they are men you know... do you like them as people? Their personalities, character, demeanor? You'd be surprised how these things can change your perspective on someone being "ugly" or not, and therefore your attraction to them. Heck, I'd take an average or even not-so-good-looking guy with a great personality over a looker with a bad character any day. So no, there is absolutely nothing wrong with the fantasies you've been having. In my eyes, the only "ugly" men are the ones with a bad character & personality, who I wouldn't even give the time of day to... no matter what they look like on the outside.