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    So, my SO seemed really happy after our time together. I was a surprised by his response. He seemed surprised at how much energy he spent. We spent about a total of 2.5 to 3 hours together and went two rounds. He said he came twice. It was much more intense the second round and he was very sweaty and spent afterwards. He tends to be quiet during sex except for a little dirty talk.

    Am I to understand that it was that good? How do you know if the person really enjoyed it?

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    Just a sidenote: I'm asking because I'm honestly unsure whether he was being truthful or just nice/complimentary. I just wondered whether there were particular signs which tell whether a partner is or was "satisfied".

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    Did you not feel him cum or notice that twice?

    That to me is an indication is it not that he was able to do so, how did you feel?
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    Quote Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH View Post
    Did you not feel him cum or notice that twice?

    That to me is an indication is it not that he was able to do so, how did you feel?
    I'm new to sex but when I think about it, he did come the second time I believe. tbh, I was more focused on the closeness although the sex was intense. After activity for a while, he usually quiets down and relaxes a little. Is that an indication he came?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH View Post
    Did you not feel him cum or notice that twice?

    That to me is an indication is it not that he was able to do so, how did you feel?
    And we use condoms, so that makes it more difficult to know whether he did.

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    dont u see the condom after? why would he lie??? if hes putting in that sort of time of course he would be quiet and relaxed after. why would u suspect he wasnt satisfied?
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    It is unlikely a guy would take a used condom with him, but I suppose the stories of women surreptitiously impregnating themselves to have a child by an unwilling father could be changing that. Did you have access to the trash after he left? Flushing condoms is a good way to clog the plumbing.

    If he has a silly grin on his face after sex, it is usually a good indication he liked it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jns View Post
    If he has a silly grin on his face after sex, it is usually a good indication he liked it.
    I think this answers the question .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elanor-Jane View Post
    dont u see the condom after? why would he lie??? if hes putting in that sort of time of course he would be quiet and relaxed after. why would u suspect he wasnt satisfied?
    Yes, I see it but I don't inspect it. I am not assuming he was lying. I am just curious if there are particular signs which confirm how he felt. Simply asking out of curiosity, nothing more.

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    Men are certainly capable of climaxing more than once in a single session. If he says he came twice, I'd take his word for it and leave it be.
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