Thread: Premature Ejaculation

I love my husband dearly. I would do anything for him. It's because I love him so much I want him to be happy in life and love. He thinks he suffers from premature ejaculation but honestly sometimes he last 45 min and sometimes he pops after 30 seconds. It is really fine with me but now he obsessing over climaxing to quickly whenever it happens.

Anyway, he is now looking at supplements on the internet to stop his premature ejaculationl.

Should I be worried about his behavior or is it simply a passing obesession thought will go away and we can get back to normal?

Thank You

Tell him what you wrote here; if you don't mind, he shouldn't mind!

and tell him to stay away from "supplements" on the internet.
The only thing they supplement is the income of those selling them.

I agree with Texasred.

Stay away from supplements on the internet.

PE is a problem for many men. It has been discussed in this forum and a search or advanced search may provide some additional information that you or he may find helpful. There are also well respected web sites that have articles on PE. If he is really concerned or obsessed as you say, have him do some research by typing Premature Ejaculation into Google.

Ignorance is not "bliss" in this case...knowledge and understanding is.

And this won't be a "passing obsession" if y'all don't talk it through: this is a pretty important issue to a man, and it won't just go away. Sit down with him and figure out all his concerns, because from what you've said, it doesn't really sound like he has what most folks would call "PE."

Originally Posted by Texasred

Tell him what you wrote here; if you don't mind, he shouldn't mind!

and tell him to stay away from "supplements" on the internet.
The only thing they supplement is the income of those selling them.

Sorry i dont agree, my boyfriend used some natural supplements of ebay and they worked great. He used to come after 1 to 2 minutes and that just wasnt enought time for me and after he used the tablets for about 2 weeks he slowly controlled when he would come. that works for both of us. so may be you had bad experiences with the supplements but we didnt.

my husband and i, at least i think, have good communication. i appreciate all the input so far and thanks jessco for the premature ejaculation supplement tip. i came across this pretty interesting site, (edit) jessco has he tried this one? it seems to be pretty popular.

which supplements did your husband buy from ebay?

thank you

I honestly think if he's that concerned, then he should consult his Dr. For me personally, there are times when I finish fairly quick and then there are times when I can keep going with out ever finishing. It all depends on many factors, stress, excitment, stimulation. My wife actually prefers if I don't last " forever" and takes it as a compliment when I don't last too long. I'm sure its somewhat the same for your husband from what you say. I would start with some exercises, like kiegels, or other control techniques then possibly the Dr.before trying to self medicate.

my husband refuses to see a doctor and anything i say to him won't convince him. i have even threatened to leave him (i was just trying to persuade him and didn't really mean it). he became so angry he said fine, if that's what i want he will give me a divorce. i tried telling him I didn't mean it but he is so upset and angry with me he has decided we should separate. i can't beleive this is happening. this has all gotten out of control. i feel like killing myself.
no one can help me, i'm all alone and my husband won't answer my phone calls. i'm so sad. no one on this forum can help me.