Thread: empty sex, trust, insecurities

i can't feel anything when we have sex.

I've been a rather close relationship for the past 3 1/2 months - within this time, I let him and his brother move into my 3 bedroom apt.

At first i felt all the aspects of limerance - every touch moved me, i felt desire, attachment, hidden love.

But with the first two weeks he began shutting himself up in his room and showed less secual desire toward me; he was aloft and always secretive with his computer and carried around 2 cell phones.

He had been flirting with a girl who was having a secretly elicit relationship with one of his friends; of which, he openly admitted chatting via skype with her often, and deeply emotional levels to console her personal life issues, whilst also talking about sexy tattoos etc? O_o

something really really big broke inside of me after that.

we hang out and sleep in the same room and everything is presumably normal ... except that i can't seem to refix myself.

since this happened, i can't feel sex.

i try to think about how nice he is; i don't have problems being aroused or feel my limbedo has waned, i just simply can't feel anything when we have sex.

i do still have parinoid and anxiety problems since then - night terrors about him cheating as well.

how do i fix myself?