Thread: Sex toy advice

Hello. I am really glad I found this forum. I have been looking all over and there is just not alot of info out there (atleast not easy to find lol) and I don't really have anyone I can talk to about this.

I was raped when I was younger and it has caused me alot of personal issues and I have trouble being intimate now because of it. Often when I am working up towards sex I will have a panic attack & freak out and have to stop.

part of it is my trauma but another huge part that is causing it to get worse is that I fear it will hurt. Because lately it has been hurting alot. I think I just wasn't well lubed, not fully ready and bad positions all contributed. My husband is good sized as well and I am very tight and small.

So anyways I am thinking getting myself a really good vibe and using it often will help me relax to having it in me and loosen me up and relax overall as well.

I actually have some already but I want a new/different one. I have a rabbit the normal original one and I liked it but I find it too large for me (width). I also tried a hard plastic which I just hate. And last one I got was a jelly which I thought would be soft but it seems huge and I really disliked the jelly material plus heard that they are not very safe.

So doing some research I think I would like a nice silicone vibe. But I am trying to find something slender and really idk what size would be good.

I found this one-
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1.5 inches in diameter doesn't seem that big but I am not good at judging. I don't really have the money to buy it if it isn't right either bleh.

It just seems like the only slender ones are all the hard plastic type

I got the magic wand from Hi....chi and my wife loves it.....with it, she gets off really quickly...in 10 minutes she'll have her first O...after that, is a bunch of little ones...but gets her really horny...good luck!