Research on penis issue

**marcopoly** · 09-29-2011 12:56 PM

michaelangelo, you are totally missing the point. Huge penises are okay if you are a woman that can enjoying them and not feeling hurt afterwards, now, tell those men that have average penises from 4 to 6 inches, that they are blessed. I explain why....

At the beginning in your teens is all about size, girth and how tall and muscular you are....how many pimples or how beautiful your tees are.....is here that is important to tell young men that sex is not about vaginal penetration all their lives...that if they find the right woman in life, and grow together, that having an avarage or bit smaller penies will actually help them in being able to experience anal sex and deep throw bj techniques...big penisese won't do it...is just more difficult.....woman get hurt and if they do it, wont again in a long time...is just TOO MUCH MEET FOR THOSE holes......(sorry a bit graphic)....what I am trying to say is that later in life, a man that takes care of himself will have possibilites that a big penies men would never or very few times in life coiuld have....I am 5.5 inches and a decent girth, 5 years ago, I tried everything to enlarge my penis, nothing worked, my wife would look at me like saying I don't get it.....anyhow, today, I enjoy my wife's behind once a week and deep throw bjs twice a week....and when we make love, we have several positions and really mix it up.....tell those men, that being big is not the best since as you grow older nobody cares an old wrinkled, fat, ugly men with a big junk.....what women wants is men who take care of themselves and are confident......

My wife told me that she wouldn't have ever let in her behind going in complete (this is the best feeling in the world and with 8 or 10 inches forget it!.....so who is the lucky one??, now anal with my wife is actually something that she started to enjoy, is true, after 2 years trying from time to time, now I use the magic wand on her, give her 2 midle orgasms, and after that I make love to her, give her another orgasmo, penetrate her from behind, then put a dildo in her vagina, and she holds the vibrator en her cilt...when this happenes, trust me you don't want a big because it doesn't work!

Good luck!

**michaelangelo** · 09-29-2011 01:32 PM

Marcopoly, I appreciate your input but you miss my point. I've already worked through all these issues for the most part but my aim now is to go out and educate other men so they don't suffer the way I did. Now, I have noticed that most of these guys that are stuck in this delusion are not persuaded by the answer you gave nor the vague answers the women usually give. I am hoping that if I get some specific info supporting that an average penis actually does cause a significantly pleasurable experience for most women, these guys may open up their thinking enough to start to explore the more evolved and complex issues surrounding their delusion. I find it intriguing and somewhat perplexing that no women care enough to help hit this subject head on and make some progress in a meaningful counter argument that is put forth in language that means something to men. We are expected to understand and work hard to "get" the female perspective on just about everything but the opposite is apparently not true. If women don't understand why men have an issue, it is solely the man's issue and he should just get over it. Sounds a lot like male chauvinists of the past. I don't know how to break through to these guys I've been talking to but at least I'm trying something.

I know all the stuff you are saying. I did not ask if big is better, etc. I asked a simple, straightforward question that only one brave soul is willing to step up and help with.

**LanaBear** · 09-29-2011 01:44 PM

I think the reason you are not getting your "scientific" answers here is because we don't look at sex being scientific. You appear to want a black & white answer, which is why I haven't even bothered to respond to this because sex is not black & white.

The reason no women appear to want to "hit this subject on the head" is because it has and been done, time and time again here. This is just the same question from a different angle. We have many penis size threads. You sound like you are pretty bitter about women in general.

Why would I rate the sensation I've had with a "average" sized penis? What does it matter? I've had sex with the same man, my husband, for the last 16 years. He's above average. All my partners I had before him, don't even matter because what I do have with my husband is wonderful. I had below average partners and above average partners, truth be told, I only remember one time when I paid attention to the size of a partners penis. Penis size never really went through my head, I didn't really care!

So, before you jump to conclusions that...

To the ladies, guys who read this notice no women will answer honestly/at all. What message does this send to guys? Most will think you're hiding the truth. Its an important question. Why no good participation?

Maybe you should take into consideration that not everything is black & white and that making assumptions and generalizations about our participation in this forum will do you no good here.

**ItsASecret** · 09-29-2011 02:02 PM

To the ladies, guys who read this notice no women will answer honestly/at all. What message does this send to guys? Most will think you're hiding the truth. Its an important question. Why no good participation?

A lot of the time the honest answer, as in we could care less, is not what a guy wants to see so they say there is "no honesty". If a woman says she does not care it means she does not care and a man should be accepting of that. Trying to put a scale on it, big small, 0, 10 means nothing to a woman who does not care about size. Trying to allude to dishonesty simply because a number, a value, a designation is not placed on penis size does not mean anything except the reiteration that countless women do not care. Men, just like women often want to wait until they hear what they want to hear. Reading several posts made about women not caring over and over and over and then suddenly reading that one comment saying that one woman in the group likes larger penises does not equate that other women are dishonest or that the general consensus is now that larger penises are better. A singular opinion or minority does not equate majority. Big difference, and the men who have a smaller penis suffering from the delusion of penis size equating satisfaction look for those minority opinions to try and justify their opinions. Same applies to the person who wants to find some sort of exception to the general opinion...they keep looking and looking for that one person who will mess up their numbers just so they can say that clearly size matters. One must take the general consensus, and a man looking for proof needs to look at the overall and not look for "well this one says no satisfactions therefore this must be the outcome". The subject is not a dichotomy, that is why women do not care to answer.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 09-29-2011 03:02 PM

Originally Posted by michaelangelo

To the ladies, guys who read this notice no women will answer honestly/at all. What message does this send to guys? Most will think you're hiding the truth. Its an important question. Why no good participation?

See statements like that will 1) not attrack answers and is a put down for those that have answered, what message are you sending our members?

In addition, I disagree that for us women it's a lover that is good at oral sex, and for a man it's about penetration that gets him off.. We've had this debate so I'm not going there totally, however, people are different, we are different, each and every one of us...I prefer penetration so your theory is not correct as I am one of 4 out of 10 results making it almost equal on another thread on this Forum.

You also basically feel this Forum doesn't really equate to being able to answer your question as the mindset is different and you also dis-agree with members here.

I would be treading very careful about now with future responses on this thread to our members , or this thread will be closed.

You have asked a question, if anyone cares to answer, they will.

If they answer and it's not what you are after, you've clearly stated so far what you are trying to achieve, a simple thank you is all that is needed.

A debate does not work with "research".... You are trying to gleen numbers.

CW

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 09-29-2011 03:17 PM

Based on the reply, thread closed.

**LanaBear** · 09-29-2011 03:24 PM

You make it sound like men are not capable of intelligent thought and conversation with your last reply.

And again, it reinforces my statement above that you are bitter about women in general. Also, by saying that our answers basically mean that we are trying to avoid the subject is a matter of stubborn opinion. You are not getting the answer that YOU want, so therefore, the answers are not good enough.

Good luck with all that.

Thread closed.