Thread: help - cant orgasm any more and dont enjoy sex.

i had my first orgasm when i was about 15, and never had a problem having one for about a year. my partner at the time broke up with me, and ive not been able to have one since (that was 6 years ago) I have literally tried everything, i have looked on every forum and website i can find, and they are all telling me to do what i have already done. Im not on any medication, i dont drink very often and am generally in good health. I also have never (even before the first problem started) wanted to have sex, and when i do have sex i dont enjoy it, it feels more like a chore than what its meant to be. and again, me and my partner have tried everything. Thankyou if anyone on here can help me. I really dont know what else i can do and after 6 years, its starting to really get to me.

I make this suggestion a lot, but it's a good one. See a sex therapist. They might be able to help....

Small suggestion also, have you tried watching porn and playing with your "bean"? That might help make you aroused.