I mean, my wife says things to me but I would love for her to be more verbal with me in telling me how many "Os" had, the intensity, and how wonderful I make her feel....

Do woman realize that for men, affirmation about what we do, that we do it right and SUPER right when is the case....it should be part of a health communication with the spouse to tell the other how much they make us feel wonderful in bed...and out of it too....

How to come up with a proven list of things that are adviseble to do in order to keep the relationship going strong.....any ideas?

1. Verbal affirmation: tell you spouse (always) how wonderful they make you feel - share details, make sounds and faces....we'll remember them all the time...
2. Help the other when in a bad mood: it should be that when one is in a bad mood, that the other go after you to rescue....I mean is about telling the other "what happened to you?....why are you perturbed today...can I do anything to help....
3. Show the other you care...think about what you can do to put a smile on the other face?....an do it an do it often.....make efforts to stay close...life is short to not love or want to enjoy sex and also too long to be with someone you fall out of love with....

Is all about communicating what happens inside you and be mindful that others cannot and should not arise to your standards (all the time)....after all...we are just human.....

Any comments...??