Thread: Boyfriend not digging the sex?

For some reason whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, I feel like he doesn't enjoy it.. Maybe I'm just over thinking it, but his facial expression is pretty dull and he just looks bored.
We have been together for two years and I used to think that it was because he was a virgin and I wasn't..

Is it because I'm not "new"?

I highly doubt that is the case. I see that men tend to get a glazed over look sometimes when they are in the mood, depending on the type of guy they are. Sometimes they go crazy with noises and grabbing and etc... Are you calm in bed? Perhaps you aren't seeing like you're enjoying it, or he doesn't want to hurt you...Or he just is a mellow slow kinda guy. Perhaps if you want to spice it up ask him if there is a fantasy he wants to try, orrrr suggest your own- most guys would be up for it, especially if you're like "hey i've been meaning to try "this" in bed? What do you think? Do you want to try anything?" ??
and etc. HTH

I think people's sex faces are pretty varied and don't necessarily convey exactly what they're feeling at the moment. I've seen guys faces look like their wincing, thinking really hard, in pain, constipated - pretty much the total opposite of what you'd expect pleasure to look like. I would imagine my sex face isn't exactly the sexiest either! I'm sure he's enjoying it. You could always try to engage him a bit, if you haven't already. Maybe in the moment ask if him if what you're doing feels good, if he's enjoying it, etc.

I rarely show any facial expressions during sex. Doesn't mean I bored at all. It just the way I am. I don't even make noise except for occasionally when receiving oral. If you really want to know, just ask him. Then, depending on his responce, you go from there and hopefully grow together.