My EX SO, offered this once, the 3 some, and I was in my 20's he was older .
I had then, nor do I have interests in women sexually.
So I just asked him which guy friend of his did he have in mind ?
Explained that it could be very sexually enticing to have a 2nd guy myself to play with and also watch them give Oral and Anal.
He never brought it up again.
CW: I deffinetely will say that to him. We have kinda been ignoring the issue, he hasnt wanted to sit down and talk about anything yet that has to do with it. He has a 200 gallon 75 gallon and now a 2 gallon fish tank so he tends alot of his time to that when he isnt at work, which he works at subway.
lols BG I like it.
Baby, remember...I know you need this person in your life for now, you feel that it's all you have and you do love him in your way, he does "sometimes" appreciate what you do...But you know he's not your dream, and can't fullfill your dreams, he is not one in you, rather himself and you are part of his life, not two people as one.
I think the fish are his "get away" from life...He would not be coping with owing so much rent and on such little income with a baby 3 years old and a girlfriend... Food on the table, nappies, lots of things apart from rent...The fish are a distraction maybe the 3 some too but I know you don't really want to do it...You would do it for him...because you want to be perfect and that's because you want someone to finally see you.
See yourself, please look in that mirrorYou are beautiful and I told you your way out, if only you can see your dreams and goals, you are taking on so much, so much.....
Anyways I won't lecture
But, 4 years later? There are people here that feel like family, and we are here...
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
I've never been in a threesome, so take what I say with a grain of salt.
If I was you, I would chose a girl that I was attracted to, but was not of the type the bf was strongly attracted to. He would not get to chose on this. He got to chose about having a threesome.
I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
Patrick Henry
I have never had a threesome, but most people I know who has had a threesome while in a serious relationship have regretted. A very few end up making a good experience, but both partners need to want it equally. If one partner is just going along to make the other happy, it is bound to cause some problems.
“The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” - William Arthur Ward
hi I agree with everything that has been said x If your doubting it now dont do it you need to be secure in your relationship to make it work x
Why not a threesome with two guys?
Oops! Saw this after I posted. Absolutely right!
My lover and I were casually discussing sexual fantasies and he said a threesome was one of his. I asked him the same question, which one of his friends he'd like to share me with.
End of discussion. LOL.
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