Thread: Bleeding after rough foreplay. Help!!

Hey ladies, I'm in need of some help. I'm 17, going to be 18 in less than 2 weeks. I've been fairly sexually active, but recently started seeing a new guy a little while ago. We haven't taken things far, nothing more than oral, but I'm a bit scared. Last week was the first time we started getting a little touchy feely, and everything was fine and felt great. When I got home, he sent me a pic of a slight reddish-pink spot on his bed. Not big at all, but he asked me about it and I thought maybe his nails had just cut me a little even though it didn't hurt at all and we forgot about it.

Tonight we went back at it. But it was so much worse. It didn't hurt, he got a little rough and I liked it. We didn't even get to oral, just messing around. But we went to go take a shower, and there was blood all over his hand and my panties. I started to clean up solo in the shower and there was a flow of blood, even a clot about the size of a dime! My period doesn't start until mid-next week, I'm not on birth control and haven't been for about 6 months now. I'll admit, I wasn't the most careful in my past, but everytime I've gotten tested for STDs I've come up clean.

Ladies please help! Have any of you ever had this problem? I'm really nervous there could be something wrong, and I can't go see a doctor because I don't have one nor insurance to cover a co-pay.

It probably was just your period coming early, that's the only way you'll get a clot and that much blood. Sometimes me and my hubby experience a little blood during sex, but that's only when we do anal and it's only a little bit.

Most likely its nothing to be concerned about. At that age, periods can have a mind of their own. Also, you can get some spotting when you ovulate.

If you are concerned, go to planned parenthood. They always have either free care or can tell you where to you. Because of your age (being under 18), there are definitely places you can go to get free care. Your local Planned Parenthood will know. Even if everything is fine, its a good idea to go and get an annual exam and they may even help you get birth control for the future.