Looking to satisfy

**mrdee** · 10-29-2011 11:54 AM

Thanks MC! I dont think its that shes to sensitive or anything like that.... Although I did take the advice and went much slower and gentler down there last night. It was more subtle than other times that I have, and I just ran my tongue flat and slow up her and in slow circles around her clit and over it very gently and she let me stay down on her longer than normal. Other than slow licks with a flat tongue and circling the tip of my tongue around her clit, I dont really know what else to do down there. Are there any other tips or techniques? Any advice on what I should do about the women thats interested in a 3 some?

**jns** · 10-29-2011 11:41 PM

mrdee, if you google [clitoris] you can see several pictures of female human clitoris. The hood over the clitoral glans is very sensitive also, but less than the clitoral glans itself. When aroused but not yet fully engorged, the clitoral glans can be felt as a small pea or even a large pea a short distance back from the opening of the clitoral hood. As the arousal causes the tissues to engorge with blood, the clitoral glans peaks out from under the clitoral hood. Direct contact with the clitoral glans for many women is too much, so they feel pain. It is better to massage the clitoral glans through the hood, staying a short distance back from the opening, unless asked to do more.

You can find out if having your tongue in your wife's vagina or in the area around the urethra provides any sensations for your wife by asking her. If they do, incorporate that stimulation in your routine. If that is the case, you can have your tongue there and use a wet lip to rub her clitoral hood. If she is facing you, use your upper lip and move your whole head up and down. If she is facing away, use your lower lip and have your lower jaw move up and down. Every once in a while use your tongue to lubricate and stimulate the clitoris but mostly use a lip. Also find out if she likes you "nipping" (not really nipping) her inner thighs or other areas with lips over teeth. If so, every once in a while add that to the play.

**angelstrawberry** · 10-30-2011 03:11 PM

I really can't stand when a man is very repetitive in his motion. Do different type of licking and sucking and I like them to stick their tongue inside me ing me with their tongue

**jns** · 11-01-2011 01:03 AM

Originally Posted by mrdee

I am recently married and am looking for something a little extra. Me and my wife have a great sex life, but I would like to return the favor of going down on her more than I do now. I dont know exactly what Im doing when I do, and it isnt long before she is anting to move on from it. But I am wondering what I can do that she will like, that will make her want me to stay down there longer. Any advice or tips to really make get her hot would be great! Thanks.

Ask her why she wants you to move on when you go down on her. Tell us her response.

**mrdee** · 11-09-2011 05:53 PM

Well, everything else is pretty good, but when I go down on her she gets bored after awhile. I dont know much of what else to do other than the typical things. A flat tongue licking all the way up, circling around the clit and going sideways across her clit...... I guess those same things get boring after awhile..... Guess I need some new ideas for when Im down there!