bf wont have sex with me anymore

**miss.nedra** · 10-28-2011 12:18 PM

I think he is repulsed by the weight i put on while pregnant, or he is bored. what do i do?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-28-2011 03:14 PM

miss.nedra.

If he is replused by the weight you put on, having "his" child, then he needs a reality check, women put on weight, they have to, and they are beautiful before, during and after giving birth to a beautiful child that belongs to both parties.

What is he like with your child? Does he show love and affection, can't wait to hold the baby?

Is it possible that he has been speaking to people and they have suggested leaving you alone for a bit, allowing you to bond with your child?

I think you need to add some more text here to help us answer you.

**Snerg** · 10-31-2011 07:35 AM

For some guys, they now see you as a mother and not a sexual person. Talk with him and see what issue there may or may not be. As CW said, he could also just be giving you time. No way of knowing unless you talk.

**miss.nedra** · 10-31-2011 02:42 PM

it's been 4 months since our daughter was born

**KMonte85** · 10-31-2011 02:53 PM

do you know for a fact that this is how your boyfriend feels, did he tell you this? Or is this an assumption you made based on his behavior?

If you're grasping at straws trying to figure out where his behavioral changes are coming from, you will drive yourself crazy. Sit him down and TALK to him about what's going on. No more guessing games.

**jns** · 10-31-2011 09:54 PM

Have you tried dressing sexy around him and seeing if he shows any interest? If you gained weight during the pregnancy, you may not updated your wardrobe for the new you.