Thread: I'm scared of having sex

I lost my virginity in the worst way possible (I can't remember it) due to excess amounts of drink! Don't drink ladies haha!
Every since then i've only had sex once which was last year with my boyfriend at the time but since then i've been too scared of getting 'intimiate' with guys. When it come's down to it i always somehow get out of it. I also went out with a guy for 2months who cheated on me because i didn't have sex with him :/ Anyone else had a problem like this?

Just wait until youre in a real relationship. I'm sure you would be eager then if you wait a while and youre very comfortable with the guy.

It seems like you have some issues that you need to resolve - the first time sex you can't remember and then the guy who cheated on you. Its going to take time, lots to talking through your feelings and what you went through to resolve your feelings. It may be helpful talking with a counsellor. Resolves those issues and the sexual components will most likely happen naturally.