Worried about my "size"

**jibjabwin** · 11-08-2011 12:24 PM

Hello,

I'm a bit nervous doing this but the anonymity of the internet helps a bit. I'm a pretty self-conscience guy especially about my thing down there. I'm 23 years old and my member is 5.7" long and 5.6" in circumference (about 1.78" diameter (I made tons of measurements to get these numbers right)) about an inch up from the base. I'm worried that this isn't enough to please a girl. I see all these movies and stuff and these dudes look really big and the girls are always all over the big 8" things. I have trouble getting involved with girls because I'm worried she will not be pleased. What can I do..

Thanks for any comments, I really appreciate them, especially honest ones.

**kristalyn_04** · 11-08-2011 12:47 PM

Do a site search for this topic, it has been discussed TO DEATH. General consensus is that the vast majority of women don't care about size. They care about personality, confidence, and being treated right.

**oxy-moron** · 11-08-2011 12:51 PM

Hi
Go to Wikipedia and search penis size
After you find that you are about average you could think about taking a massage course.
This will give you the jump on most other guys especially if you are generous with it.
Remember that porn is far from reality and that more Orgasms come from tongue and finger play but you rarely see it in porn.

**ItsASecret** · 11-08-2011 01:21 PM

The true honestly is the vast majority of women do not care about penis size. They care about how you touch them, how you kiss them, how you hold them, how you talk to them, they do not care about how much of you can get stuffed inside. Movies and porn lie, it is a market to sell things not sell satisfaction. Size is only becomes an issue if you make it an issue.

**jibjabwin** · 11-08-2011 02:08 PM

I understand about having a good personality and treating her well, etc...but certainly there is an ideal "size" that feels best for women...is there not? I've read many a woman post that she enjoys a "full" feeling. Is 5.7" L 1.78" W enough? All things being equal, there must be a best feeling size...

**kristalyn_04** · 11-08-2011 03:44 PM

Originally Posted by jibjabwin

I understand about having a good personality and treating her well, etc...but certainly there is an ideal "size" that feels best for women...is there not? I've read many a woman post that she enjoys a "full" feeling. Is 5.7" L 1.78" W enough? All things being equal, there must be a best feeling size...

Yeah, "best feeling" size is the average range, which is where you are. Too big can be painful, smaller sizes can be worked with, given some willingness and enthusiasm. But that is only a very small part of the big picture, there are so many things that are more important than size. I'll take a sweet confident caring guy with a tiny penis over a jerk with a huge wang any day.

**SoCoKen** · 11-08-2011 05:44 PM

Most guys worry about the size of their schwantz. Most women find it unattractive when guys are insecure about their size. If you can get past worrying over nothing, you can move ahead of most guys in the penis department, making you above average!

It sucks that you are worried about your size, but I can tell you who isnt, 3.2 billion women you aren't dating. They couldn't care less about your size. Most of them are too busy worrying about their own insecurities, so you're better off worrying about global warming or stray meteorites. At least then you will seem less insecure and self-serving than you do asking women to validate your size on the internet.

**jibjabwin** · 11-08-2011 06:01 PM

Originally Posted by SoCoKen

Most guys worry about the size of their schwantz. Most women find it unattractive when guys are insecure about their size. If you can get past worrying over nothing, you can move ahead of most guys in the penis department, making you above average!

It sucks that you are worried about your size, but I can tell you who isnt, 3.2 billion women you aren't dating. They couldn't care less about your size. Most of them are too busy worrying about their own insecurities, so you're better off worrying about global warming or stray meteorites. At least then you will seem less insecure and self-serving than you do asking women to validate your size on the internet.

That came across kind of rude, and pretty presumptuous. Hope you feel better about yourself.

**SoCoKen** · 11-08-2011 06:12 PM

Originally Posted by jibjabwin

That came across kind of rude, and pretty presumptuous. Hope you feel better about yourself.

You're right, that was rude. The last sentence was too far, my apologies.

**ItsASecret** · 11-08-2011 06:34 PM

...but certainly there is an ideal "size" that feels best for women...is there not?

Sure, average size would be the answer. Why? because it does not place a favorite on anything other than regular, normal, typical WHICH YOU ARE. Men often want size to matter, but for women we really do not care. We, well the majority of us, do not place satisfaction on the size of a penis-there is of course always a subset of any group that will be the extreme of anything but those numbers are low. Women are simply not like, we are not 'shallow' in that sense, we do not place how good we will feel on how big a penis is or how wide or how curved or whatever superficial detail it may be. Men need to respect and understand that stance and become more confident in themselves especially if they are in the normal range but do not want to believe it. You are in the normal range, many people do not even know how to measure something other than saying "yup normal" so saying "I am x.xx inches is that good?!?!?" is not going to make a difference in how a woman feels about you. Just be confident, you are normal, a woman is not going to pout because you are normal sized.