Thread: Not really a sex question but to do with someone else and sex related matter

That is not 'normal' 14 year old behavior, in my opinion. To be attracted to any breathing woman, is a normal 14 year old behavior, masturbating, also normal, but using some lady's nightgown to do it on, no attempt to clean it up... is just so highly unlikely -- I've really only ever heard about men that grew up to be fairly depraved or worse men doing such things in youth.

If this happened, then I wouldn't allow him in my home anymore. I would never be alone with him. I would tell my husband the minute I saw it as covering something up like that would just seem suspect. Do you think your husband has uncontrollable rage or something that he would harm a kid? Or would he simply talk to his parents to perhaps get the kid in some therapy before he starts sneaking into homes to steal panties and jerk on them til it escalates further? Its beyond creepy if true.

Anyhow... at the very least I would avoid all contact other than hello in passing if you just want to move on from this point.

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Describe if you will your fence, leans over, or has cracks?

My neighbour old guy I was 14, there were "cracks" and I saw his zip down.. Over the fence means head over the top saying hi... If a boy did that? Would not that be cause of he's infactuated?

When i was next to the pool he was playing bball next door but he stopped and i saw his figure in the cracks like leaning on the fence. I just thought he might be spying. Boys are starish, they stare on the bus a lot so its ok if he stares i think

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

That is not 'normal' 14 year old behavior, in my opinion. To be attracted to any breathing woman, is a normal 14 year old behavior, masturbating, also normal, but using some lady's nightgown to do it on, no attempt to clean it up... is just so highly unlikely -- I've really only ever heard about men that grew up to be fairly depraved or worse men doing such things in youth.

If this happened, then I wouldn't allow him in my home anymore. I would never be alone with him. I would tell my husband the minute I saw it as covering something up like that would just seem suspect. Do you think your husband has uncontrollable rage or something that he would harm a kid? Or would he simply talk to his parents to perhaps get the kid in some therapy before he starts sneaking into homes to steal panties and jerk on them til it escalates further? Its beyond creepy if true.

Anyhow... at the very least I would avoid all contact other than hello in passing if you just want to move on from this point.

Oh no way i could never tell hubby, he would probably hurt him This will be so hard to do, he is outside when i use the pool

Ask him not to watch you when you're in the pool. If he keeps doing it, tell his parents. If he keeps doing it after that, call the cops - this is harassment, and you should be able to use your backyard.

Would your husband REALLY REALLY hurt a 14-year-old boy? Please say no Because that's upsetting. Even if he's bothering you, violence against a minor would put him straight into a LOT of hot water.

To be honest, the thought of an adult man beating up a 14 year old kid is more disturbing to me than the whole nightie issue. A 14 year old boy hanging around watching you swim is not something you should put up with either, though. Next time you see him at your fence, say hi and ask him how he's doing, and end the conversation there. If he doesn't go away, say something like, "Is there something I can help you with?" That's a major hint to go away. If he doesn't take it, you may have to ask him specifically to leave. If you find him again at your fence (especially if he's sneaking around, looking at you through the cracks), say you would like to swim in peace, and threaten to call the police if he does it again.