will having sex with a guy who has a large hurt me...? its just that i'm a little nervous about it![]()
will having sex with a guy who has a large hurt me...? its just that i'm a little nervous about it![]()
Life is like riding a bicycle, to keep your balance you must keep moving....
If you are aroused enough, well lubricated, and you go slow you should be fine. Nothing rough if it's uncomfortable, if he penetrates too deep just let up a bit (he doesn't need to go in all the way for it to be pleasurable). Remember to communicate!![]()
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I agree, that if you're lubricated it definately helps. My fiance is very large and the first time we had sex it was like "Holy !" lol. Take your time. If it feels tight just ease your way in. In and out going in a little but more each time until you're comfortable. Take your time until you get used to it, by that I mean, not really fast sex, because if my fiance goes too fast sometimes, I get sore quickly. We always use lube, no matter what, just because it's very helpful to be lubed up. Helps with any friction and makes it easier to go in. Hope this helps!
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
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