Thread: Orgasm?

Recently my boyfriend gave me oral sex and it instantly made my legs start shaking uncontrollably. It felt really good but after awhile I had to pull back because it was too much. Each time after that I couldn't go very long before I couldn't handle the feeling; it felt good but almost tickled. ? He looked it up and said that it was because I had an orgasm but I guess I'm not sure what that was supposed to feel like. Sometimes if i grind on him for a bit I can feel what I assume is an orgasm and it feels really good, like a pulsing sensation down there, but I don't remember feeling this during the oral.

I am unsure whether one can have an orgasm through oral sex and I had it myself with my girlfriend with whom I have yet to have real sex and I enjoy doing the rest yet dream of getting her turned on is really beyond words

In my experience, when I have a clitoral orgasm it's definite, u know when u have one no doubt, a g sPot orgasm is a little iffier but if ur enjoying it that's all that really matters. And you'll learn more the older u get, enjoy the experience and the experimenting

I know what you are talking about. The oral stimulation can be too much for me sometimes. Also, after an orgasm, you can be super sensitive (not in the good way) so the stimulation can be over whelming. I also feel orgasms differently for oral, intercourse and manual stimulation. Every person is different. Don't worry about what is happening as long as its all feeling good.

BTW, sometimes I let my partner keep going after I have had an orgasm from oral and start getting to the overstimulated phase. It feel torturous and like I can't take it, but it also brings me to another orgasm faster.

I have a very sensitive clit (and can't even rub it because it feels uncomfortable), it feels good for a little bit, but then just starts to feel uncomfortable. Maybe you're just very sensitive.

This has happen to many many times..it's the feeling that ur about to orgasm but then you don't and then can't handle it anymore (in a good way) Just relaxing is the way to go..when i have too much on my mind thats what happens to me

Okay thanks everyone! Maybe it was just a first time thing and now that I know what to expect it will be even better the next time lol I will definitely keep all of this advice in mind and remember to relax more and just enjoy myself

For me it always seemed that if you have doubts it's not an orgasm...

Too much contact with the clitoris, its being over stimulated.

You have to treat the whole body as an erogenous zone, this is where most people through their ignorance and impatience fail, probably because they are all watching porn thinking thats how its done.

Sorry thats all about commerce, thats right thats about making money.

Is it possible to educate people or not? Blind stupidity stumbles along making the same old mistakes, that with jealously stops womens ultimate fullfilment.

Oh thats not whats happening to me so lets attack it !!! What craziness is this when a WOMEN will not allow the truth to be told because she is currently not able to have one.

I read it on this forum, women bleeeding, painful sex, what are you doing, for it to be so painful ? It seems ignorance has no boundries, jealously rains supreme.

If a women doesn't agree with it they immediatly attack the writer.

OK, OK, bury the truth and push real orgasm into a hole and bury it forever, you have succeded in destroying womens orgasm !!! Very hollow victory though isn't it.

I agree with the above comment. Hes probably paying too much attention to the clitoris. Tell him to lick other places and maybe slow down