Thread: Best sex tip

I think to try new things. Be open minded

Try as many different positions as you can...its a good way to find out what you like best...and it's fun!

First and foremost, protect yourself. Lack of adequate protection generates stress (due to opening yourself up for STDs and pregnancy) which in turn,can negatively affect desire.

Now for the fun part. The best sex IMO is uninhibited sex. It's the sex when you are totally into the sex, don't care what you look like in this position or that position. So do whatever you need to do in order to feel uninhibited in the bedroom. Disclaimer: I am not speaking of drugs and alcohol here. I am referring to things like shutting off the lights. If that's what you need to do to be comfortable, do it. The more comfortable sex you have, the more comfortable it gets therefore better.

Don't forget to set a mood. I would love to be the wicked and wild minx that my Bear would like me to be but I need to have a certain mood going on for it. I don't like the lights completely off, but dimmed. I still want to see whats occurring. I don't HAVE to have music, but how I LOVE it. I've even pointed out songs to him that easily put me in the mood for some fun.

Be spontaneously sweet. Always touch your mate gently and lovingly even if it does not end up in sex all the time. Just build her up for a couple of days, and on day 3, she'll want you for sure.

Assuming that you follow some of the wonderful advice given previously, may I suggest two additional things?

1. Put yourself and your needs, wants and desires first (assuming you're female).

2. Buy your partner a copy of the book "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner PhD If he truly cares about you, he will thank you for it.

Being a male, I've spoken with many friends over the years who think they are "all that" when in fact, they're "none of that" and need to learn how to be a better lover.

Financial issues is the number reason couples get divorced in the U.S. and sexual issues are number 2 !!!

Relax.