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    Default Do you tell him? Does he tell you?

    I like to let my guy know when I'm on the brink so he can back off a little and keep the party going or put the pedal to the metal and push me over the edge. And when I give him oral, although I can usually tell, I like him to let me know when he's about to finish.

    Anyone else communicate like this?

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    Yes. It's important to communicate that way, because then that is when you become in sync with each other during sex. That is the only way to know what to do to make your partner feel good and it benefits you, because why wouldnt you want him/her to know that so they can do it again in the future. If something feels good, I'll tell them to keep going or tell them "that feels good." And he does the same or he'll be more specific "I like what you're doing with your tongue" or I'll tell him "I like it when you raise my hips up" ect...
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    I do tell him for things like oral even though I never finish (it is just not a thing that gets me going). And he does tell me things he likes even though he cums far too quickly to try anything different.
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    Every time! When I am about to finish, he pushes himself harder and sometimes leaves my legs shaking for an hour afterwards. When he is close, I push myself too. It's all about communication when you're having sex, it's about knowing what the other person likes and etting them know what you like too!

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    Yep, I tell her, even though she can tell when I'm about to...

    No need to tell me because her response is pretty obvious...

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    I love it when she tells me! Not merely so we can be more completely in sync, but because I love to hear the excitement in her voice!

    And I tell her: not because it's not pretty obvious to her, but because she wants to hear it from me, for the same reason I guess.

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