New position
So my boyfriend and I tried doggy style for the first time yesterday. It was my first time doing it that way, not sure about his. I wasn't sure what I am suppose to do in that position. It felt good but at the same time it hurt. What is the girl suppose to do in this position and is there anything that will make it not hurt, except doing it more?
Tell him to stop pushing so hard or deep. As long as you tell him to change the speed or depth you will find the orientation that you like the most.
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Personally I find that I can't do much in this position except brace myself and prevent myself from flying off the bed. You can always try stimulating yourself in this position.
Sometimes if it feels like it hurts I will tell him that I will take control and I basically just rock myself back and forth at the speed I like and depth that I like. For some reason sometimes he can go deep and soemtimes he cant. Not sure about that...but that's what I do if it bothers me. Sometimes also it helps if I bend all the way down instead of holding myself up with my arms.
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Having orgasms several times before the doggy style may make your vagina more flexible and accommodating.
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i love this position its my absolute fav! You can stimulate yourself with fingers or vibrator or instead of him pushing in you you can push backwards into him ... mabey lie down and do it to with a pillow or two underneath your lower stomach so it pushs your bum up more... always make sure your hair is tossed to one side so it makes one side of your neck avalible to kiss for intamacy so its not just like its nothing... if me and my bf are doing doggy on my hands and knees i always arch my stomach towards the bed so my butt is more up creating a u shape feels amazing and if im on the pillow i have my legs more together... hope u enjoy it more
This is a fantastic position I would suggest that you ask him to slow down and be more gentle if it still hurts then take control and rock back and forth onto his penis. I usually find my self bracing myself up so I do not tip over.
Try being on a different level so his angle of entry changes, or don't lean over quite so far. Have you tried lying flat on your belly?
As others have said, when it works this position is awesome and is also my favourite. Your guy needs to undertand that you have difficulties with this and that he may need to hold back on his enthusiasm until you've worked out what will work best.
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