I'm straight, but I tend to find women very attractive...is this normal?

**Quilla** · 01-15-2012 01:33 AM

It's nice to know there are girls out there that are similar, although it's the naked female body that I'm attracted too and it's deffinately sexual attraction, and I have had fantasies involving lesbian sexual encounters. Despite this I have only ever dated men, and I will probably only ever date men, I just like the curves and softness of a woman physically, though I doubt it could replace the feel of a man

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 01-15-2012 02:56 AM

Ask yourselves, both of you honestly, if it is the beauty of us, women that you are attracted to, therefore yourselves, if you "could" love your bodies and your inner self.

There is one thing to be bi, there is another to admire a woman's body but never want to act on it, and then to know in your heart that a man , is the attraction, not just in sex but in soul.

I think women are stunningly beautiful.. I've had many a woman in my past come onto me, I would look at a woman's mag before a mans, though man I love those six packs

It's only now that I can fathom through love, that I so want to stare where as before, with a man it was taken to me, anyway, as some love, but mainly we are a body that they desire... Now it's two bodies desired.

So, take that into consideration of whom you are with, what has happened in your life, how you were treated and the friendships you have had with women whom seem to understand.

It can be confusion...

This may be the time to learn about you, in ever way shape and form.

CW

**Tim** · 01-22-2012 03:25 PM

As a guy, I've often joked that I don't understand how *anyone* looks at a man and finds him attractive (lol). They all look like hairy apes to me, and I've never had any kind of physical attraction to an ape.

I was watching a talk show some 15 years ago, and I never forgot what these very wayward folks said about the nature of men and women...it was something like "the woman is THE sexual key."

Meaning, they were inferring from their unique spiritual viewpoint that all sexual feeling really originates from the female. As if the female is the holder of what spurs any sexual energy to even exist.

That's the best I can explain what they were saying, but I never forgot it and it made sense. All the women in this group agreed, and it's not as if they were all bi or homosexual. It was just that they all concurred "yes, women are what is sexy, they are what start and cause sexual feelings."

That's certainly the way I feel about it.

But then, how then do we explain gay men?

**Hopeless Dork** · 01-22-2012 05:44 PM

I am straight, I only want to have sex with a guy.. I love the male anatomy, male bodies, male touches... and that is all I want in my real life as a personal preference. I DO howEVER... find sexy women, sexually attractive, a sexual turn on even... but oddly enough never women I meet in real life lol.. its just fantasy, porno chicks etc... I will see some sexy woman posed sexy and it turns me on, always has. I've always been able to be aroused by sexy females in the fantasy sense.

I sometimes think its because those are images we think of sex with. From the time I was little I would see my brothers playboys... and thought of sex... and maybe thats where I built the association/arousal factor with sexy women and being turned on by them. Because its how sex is 'sold' to people PERIOD.

Tv, magazines, movies, commercials, billboards... 99 percent of the time its a womans body conveying the message of sex for everything from beer to cars to aluminum siting lol. So I think its only natural for women to think sex and feel sexual about women. Its been pretty much crammed down our throats :P

**Deelicious24** · 02-12-2012 03:35 PM

It's completely normal. When watching porn or looking at porn stars..i find the women attractive especially boobs. Im 100% straight..i just think its a girl thing, to look at other girls if their hot