Girl on top help!

**KelseyAnn** · 01-15-2012 11:25 AM

Hi everyone! Ok, I've only been having sex for a couple months now. I love my boyfriend and it's been pretty great so far. I love trying new things and I'm learning what I really like. BUT I have the biggest problem with being on top! Sorry to be graphic but when I'm on top I would just up and down and it felt natural. But my boyfriend said no, let's try this- and he would use his hands to guide my hips like back and forth. He said it feels so good to him, but oouchh! It felt so unnatural. The angle or something is all wrong no matter how much I try adjusting myself. I'm definitely not doing it right because it honestly feels like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. Or it feels like his penis is going to snap in half. LOL. I tell him this and he tries to help but it's so wrong. Then I get so frustrated and not in the mood anymore because I feel like I don't know what I'm doing

Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Any advice please!!

**jns** · 01-15-2012 11:42 AM

Try both cowgirl and reverse cowgirl to find something that is good for him and good for you at the same time. There are some girl on top sideways positions, too. Some require a rope from the ceiling or some other form of support.

**KelseyAnn** · 01-15-2012 09:57 PM

Hahah ok I'll just go get a rope for support.
Anything else that is actually possible?

**Tod121** · 01-16-2012 08:19 AM

Have you tried the reverse cow-girl, it might get the angle right for both of you and doesnt need anything other than the 2 of you!

**a_dub** · 01-16-2012 04:19 PM

Question: why would girl on top feel unnatural when he's guiding the action but OK when you're moving up and down? The mechanics and geometry (angles, shape of his stick and your hole haven't changed). It might be a matter of perception alone.

**LilahX** · 01-22-2012 02:17 AM

Are you staying upright or leaning forward? Try leaning fwd so yr bodies are parallel, weight supported on your elbows of hands and just move your hips.

**faybee** · 04-02-2012 08:26 PM

my husband loves when I am on top and I am facing his legs, with my hands on his legs moving forward and backward...not up and down. Can't hurt to try. If doing it his way is not hurting you...then just do it. Sex is give and take...you do for him & he does for you. Just enjoy it.